Another Update

Hey Girls,
Just wanted to update you on my rescan.  This was a verbal update as the doc has not received the written report as of yet. Apparently I have a gestational sac of 6 weeks, but no fetal hb.  Another blighted ovum the doc is saying right now.  We have decided since I have no spotting or cramping that we will continue the progesterone supps for the next 3 weeks and I will have a rescan again in two weeks (should be 11 weeks by then) to see if anything has changed (FX) and if not we will then proceed with the medical intervention.  My doc thinks this will be an ok plan for a couple of more weeks.  One final u/s to make really sure.  My heart is breaking.  I don't know what to do anymore.  I am 38 and DH is 42.  If this doesn't work out unless God is willing, we are considering to give invitro a try.  Have heard that hear in Ontario, Canada, that couples ttc for a serious amount of time without luck, the Gov will pay for the procedure.  This is an option that we are thinking of looking into.  We are both getting up there in years and I don't want to be the 50 some year old first time mother.  I am realling hoping and praying that the next scan will show a baby with a hb but my faith is running really low.  This makes things so hard as we have told no one about this pregnancy, so my only support is DH and all of you.  Pregnancy should be enjoyable, not stressful and fearful.  Thanks for listening to my rambling.

Im so sorry this is happening to you! I pray you get your little one someday!! Lets also pray your next scan shows that HB!! xoxo!

Thanks Ashlie.  I am hoping to find out Monday if they seen a fetal pole and yolk sack or not.  That part is still a little fuzzy, I think I blocked the doc for a moment while my brain registered what he was telling me.  He did say that he believed it is another blighted ovum.  I don't know, I will get better answers Monday when I go in to see him.  Thanks again though.

I hope things work out for you! (((hugs)))

[[HUGS Sherry-Lynn & DH]]

I really hope that your prayers come true. I have been there and it just sucks. We are here for you sweetie. (((Hugs)))

I hate to say it BUT i miscounted on my date and when they did an ultrasound, they didn't see a heartbeat either.  All they saw was the sac.  I went back a few weeks later and he was there.  Now, he is almost 3 years old.  Keep your faith and I will be praying for you.

I was actually on a web site about the misdiagnosed miscarriage and it tells stories about a lot of women in my same situation with blighted ovums who had u/s and nothing was seen but after repeated, and I mean repeated u/s they went on to have a healthy pregnancy and a health baby.  I am pretty sure of my dates due to temping and the date I got my digi positive, so I must put my faith in God and pray for the best.  Thank-you ladies for your continued support. 

 I will be praying that in a few weeks you see a hb!! I am so sorry you are going through this!!