I'm having...

The baby itch again.  UGH!! DH made me promise not to even talk about tt****il Sage is at least a year old, but a year ago tomorrow I got my BFP and I am feeling the urge again.  I know we are just settling in with one baby right now, but it's really a strong urge to fight that I guess men don't really understand.

For now we are not TTC but I guess I just want my kids close together while I am young.  I don't want to have to re-do the newborn thing in 5 years when Sage is in school, at some point I want to start my career, and having babies close together would make it easier.

O well that's my little tangent.  Anyone else who had a baby recently feeling this way?

HELL NO! lol I loved being pregnant and I love being home with Amelia. But we are going to wait until she is at least a year / year and a half old before we TTC again. You are still way young and have plenty of time! Enjoy Sage being a baby. From what I've heard (and experienced in the last 11 weeks) it goes by way too fast

HAHAHA if you would have asked me if I wanted another at all about 2 months ago I would have said the same thing.  I want to enjoy every second with my little girl, and I had a scare about 2 months back and I was absolutely distraught thinking about having another one.  I definitely want to enjoy her first year focusing on nothing but her.  Hopefully in April DH will stick to his word and ditch the condoms.

You're right it goes entirely too fast it's crazy!

Consider this, waiting a few years (or even till your baby is in kindergarten) will give a head start on having to pay for daycare. The people around here who have 2 little ones in daycare, pay almost as much as a mortgage every month for it.

i  agree with liz... hell no!!!!.. as you know i have a almost 2 year old and a 4 month old... and i work full time.. .im exhuasted!!!!!!!!! they are 17 months apart.. however we will try again in march of next year

Ny and Van are the same as yours apart and we are trying again March of next year as well!!

 Girl, I can't say I have one urge right now.  I know I do want one more, but we aren't even starting to think about it until Stajah is 2.  I can't wait much longer than that because I will be 35 then, but right now...NO WAY.  Some of it is because I am doing it alone right now,  but I am still dreaming of a full night sleep, so I need some more time before I get the urge.  

My oldest was 7 months when I got pregnant again. I am thankful I did, I LOVE them close together!!! They are just starting to play together, and it is adorable! Go for it!!!

I've got to say, I grew up with siblings really close together- we had a lot of fun. But, I had my twins this time when my daughter was four- and I love that spacing! Sometimes I feel guilty that she has been an only child for so long, but now I am so glad we waited (twins were a surprise, we were only TTCing with one baby in mind). But she is old enough to do some things for her self, play alone if necessary, and love her baby brothers a lot! So, I have to say that I am glad we have the spacing that we do. Whatever works- can't say that I didn't have the baby itch before hand though, but that's how it worked out. Good luck!

Carrie

All my kids are well spaced LOL 16 11 and 8 months. Perfect! I was not so good when I was younger and now that I am older I feel more confident and everything. My oldest was in school when I had my second which was awesome. They both had their own time with us when they needed it so much. Nothing wrong with having them close together though which is why hubby wants another one now so that we can finish before I am way too old and my doctor wants everything out of me. Have been avoiding that one a few years now. Hoping to be pregnant anytime now just enjoy the first bit as long as you can. I still cant believe my baby is going to be 17 years old this year. It goes so very fast. When I had Hayvann it was the best gift ever though