To those of you who think I am a selfish *****

I actually got more stress whith the famly at home. Nothing I could vent about really tho. It really is better than it was and it does get better. She is just her way or the high way type.

I also would like to say I am sorry if you felt I implied anything to the sort.  I also think you are a very nice person just from the support you offer in your other post.  No once could possible no anyones situation unless they walked in that person shoes.  I honestly felt like it was pg hormones leading most of your emotions but again no one would no the real extent of your feelings unless they lived it.  As far as the living situtation we have to do what we have to do.  Of course you would not want to be homeless.  I understand they "I married the mommy's baby" My hubby is # 1 of 7 so in my mil's eyes NO ONE was good enough for her 1st baby.  lol lol  I can honestly say that really kinda all changed when I had our daughter.  She really really treats me differntly now than in the beginning.  Hopefully things will get better with you and her after that beautiful baby arrives. 
Denise

Thanks. Like I said before, I don't remember who said what. I do know that the closer it gets to baby time the better she is. I just realized (literally as I started this post) I am am worried that with her acting this way about the shower this will go back to how they were.

  Accept your blessings

Well, glad to see you didn't give up on this forum. After the responses you got last time, I was afraid you'd throw in the towel.

I get to ranting on here too. I don't feel like I have anyone else to talk to who would even begin to understand. And if you want honest opinions...here ya go....

Hang in there! Stay calm and think happy baby thoughts. All this stress is not good for your little one!

Best wishes!
Kina

I did for a week Kina. Then when I came back I had two emails checking on me. Decided I wasn't going to let it ruin my support here.

Don't let what some others might say to you... While I was pregnant with my twins I had a few vents in which I was treating like a moron over and I got very upset over it... You have a lot on your plate, and I know what you mean about ur hubby being clueless mine is the same way, he does the minimum to help with with our kids and I have a 2 year old who thinks she's 16 and the twin boys... I just try to stay off his case unless he really needs to be straightened out... He loves us and is a great daddy but he's not the feeding, changing kinda dad, he's a playful with the kids and working bring home the bacon kinda daddy...lol I hope all get's better for ya... and smile... :)

Thanks!

I'm also glad that you didn't give up- I didn't reply to that post but I read it and I got uncomfortable with the responses- I also use this forum as a place to vent and get advice, and I think it's sad that someone would be so negative and bothered by your concerns. They are valid for you, and they don't need to read them if they feel that way, at least that's my perspective. I think life can really stink and we all wish things could be different, but we do need a place to vent. I hope you'll keep coming here, because I think the few are not the majority, and I have always enjoyed your responses and support! Take Care.

Carrie

Thank you. I think many of us use this forum to vent about things.