Little Known Facts about Pitocin
I never said I was better then anyone, I had two c-sections and never got to experience a natural birth. I personally feel that the OP's article was a bit on the extreme side, but I also feel that your reaction to it is a bit extreme too. 100% success, you have to admit that that isn't right. Any birth that ends in a c-section = not a success, if the woman was trying for a vaginal birth.
I don't trust anyone 100%, if I did I would probably be dead right now b/c of some pretty crappy decisions that where made for me by doctors.
The fact is, most women (and men, actually) just take doctor's words for it b/c they are doctors, and have no idea that they can be in charge of their own medical decisions, and that makes me sad, especially when the outcome is less then optimal or leaves the person with regrets and feelings of having missed something (which happens many, many times when a birth does not turn out as expected).
I think that some doctors take advantage of that complete trust, and use it as a way to make their lives more convenient.
Gosh, I had a really unwanted, not great c-section, but I would not consider it a failure in any way (except the epidural that failed, which was horrific.) I got a beautiful healthy baby girl out of it, who was probably tired of having her head squished sideways in my pelvis.
I DO agree with you that we shouldn't trust any medical providers 100%. They have to keep their own interests in mind at all times and that can conflict with us getting the care we want sometimes.
I think you misunderstood what I said, if a woman is trying for a vaginal birth and ends up with a c-section then she has not successfully had a vaginal birth, the process in itself was not a failure b/c baby is often born healthy, but she has FAILED to get what she wants and in many women this can cause depression, feelings of inadequacy, anger and sadness.
I was so sad when I was unable to have my triplets naturally, but I knew it was a long shot going into it, so the feelings did not overwhelm me, but I can imagine a woman who goes into a normal birth feeling very sad that she did not get to experience something she might have been looking forward to since she found out she was pregnant. Especially if the c-section leads to further complications for mother or baby (infection, NICU stay, etc.).
It is hard to keep a positive perspective when you are awash in hormones, and especially when things aren't going as smoothly as you had hoped.
I will say though, that just about all women are given a pitocin shot if they birth in a hospital, especially when baby is delivered so that they don't have to wait for the placenta to be birthed. You just may not notice because you'll be focused on the new baby when they inject your IV with something.
I've had a hospital birth and more than likely had some pitocin. I bonded well with my baby.