I'm so afraid that it will be a....

So sorry to hear about another cycle going by. Good luck.

Kina,

I am so sorry you are having to go through this.  A pregnancy should be filled with excitement, especially since you said this will be your only one.  Don't let him get you down. 

Continue to look forward to this baby, boy or girl!  He'll come around once he sees that beautiful baby.

Thanks, I hope you're right about him coming around. I've lost so much sleep over this appointment Friday.

Good thing there are lots of other people around to spoil this baby too!

I'm sorry but your husband sounds like a world class jerk! 

I feel sorry for your baby.

Goodluck, I hope you get what you want.

You're sorry!?!   LOL   My own fault I guess...

Our baby will be well loved whether it comes from him or not, not to worry there....

Thanks
Kina

Were going on our 3rd girl!
My husband took it better then I did!
He just loves his girls!
Besides this might mean we can try for another lol! (yeah right)
But wishful thinking for me

when i found out that jaylyn was a girl i cried and cried and cried for 30 mins.. i was so upset that she was  a girl ... i never wanted a girl.. i didnt think i could handle a girl because of the type of asshole i was to my parents... i got over it.. shes my cuddle bug... my son never cuddled... he was a mans man from the day he was born...

Oh, good grief!!!   I've always wanted a girl. I never stopped to think about the headache I was for my parents. YIKES!!  All I ever thought about was how sweet and cute they are. I guess they DO grow up, huh? LOL

And I never wanted a boy....I thought/think I don't have a clue about boys and what to do with one. I guess if that happens, I'll find out real quick, huh?

Thanks
Kina

Kina is simply expressing her concern.  It's not necessary to attack her when her feelings are completely valid.  I'm sure she's thrilled and doesn't really care what the gender is, because it is her first child. 

We all have our own hangups about our pregnancies and our preferences.  I do... it just kind of comes with the territory.

That being said, Kina... if you haven't already had a heart-to-heart with your husband about your concerns, it's probably time to do that.  Do you REALLY think that he'll be angry and unattentive if it's a girl?  After all, it is his first child with YOU.

Thanks for the kind words. I don't mind the other comments either. Honesty is good. The truth hurts sometimes, right?

I have tried to talk to my husband about my concerns. He pretty much just brushes me off. I've said "I'm afraid if it's a girl you'll be really disappointed". He just says "I just hope it's healthy". I understand he's not coming out and saying he wants a boy, but he also won't say he's going to be disappointed in a girl. I know, it's pretty obvious. I don't think he'll be "angry", but I'm pretty sure I'll be feeling like a single mom.

It is our first (and last) child together. But we hadn't planned on ANY. I thought I'd never have kids and he has three grown daughters that have their own families. I'm 99.9% sure he didn't want any more kids. But things happen, which was our own doings....

Thanks again,
Kina