Sex and pregnancy

Kathy W.
on 5/14/10 7:36 am - Enfield, CT

No, it's not can we but do we want to. I have no sex drive and it is killing the hubby. I was just wondering if anyone else has had this problem. I want NOTHING to do with it.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

Chrissy01
on 5/14/10 7:39 am - Canada

Well, I am 9 weeks and if my husband came near me I would probably rip his arm off and beat him with it. So yeah, I get what your saying.

Kathy W.
on 5/14/10 4:43 pm - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

I spotted once after sex at like 6 1/2 weeks and had to wait for 7 days to have sex again. Then the APRN told me no sex cause of the morning sickness. She said sex can make it worse. Was happy as a clam when she said that. Still no desire since I can.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

*Malena* M.
on 5/14/10 7:44 am - Phoenix, AZ

RNY on 08/08/05

Libby is over 19 months old and I never did get my sex drive back. I am 8 weeks pregnant and that is a miracle since I almost always avoided sex. It sucks. I have no idea how to fix it either :(

329 (pre-op) 167 (4-22-10) 150 (lowest and goal Summer 07)
Wife to Russ and Mommy to Elizabeth "Libby"

Kathy W.
on 5/14/10 4:46 pm - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

Great! Just what I want to hear. Imma have to kill him if it doesn't come back.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

Liz R.
on 5/14/10 8:47 am - Easton, PA

RNY on 01/30/07

Nope - ZERO sex drive here the entire pregnancy. I don't want anything to do with any part of it. I hate to say somedays I don't even want a kiss that lasts more then 2 seconds lol

Oh and YES I love my husband very very much.

I think I am going to give in tonight in hopes of meeting my baby this weekend - he said he is OK with being "used" lol Guess that's what desperation does to a man :)

Kathy W.
on 5/14/10 4:48 pm - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

LMAO Mark would LOVE for me to use him. Hope it works for you!

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

tamiissunshine
on 5/14/10 9:33 am - Halsey, OR

Lap Band on 02/09/09

This is probably too much info, but I get so swollen down there when I'm pregnant that it is way too uncomfortable to have sex. There are other ways to satisfy the hubby though.

Tami "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me!" Philippians 4:13

Kathy W.
on 5/14/10 4:50 pm - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

That's pretty much it! Too much blood flow down there that if he touches me I am screaming and not the good screams. LOL I have TMJ, tendonitis in one wrist and had carple tunnel surgery on the other. Poor guy is outta luck.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

fostermk
on 5/15/10 6:49 am - Bay City, TX

RNY on 07/06/09

I haven't had a sex drive either. I'm 12 weeks and 2 days along. I do give in a couple of times a week and normally once we get going, I get more in the mood, but I know exactly where you are coming from.

I've finally started my new journey!!!!!!!!!!!
Surgery 7/6/09

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