feeling the blues

So.. I'll be 32 weeks this weekend. Tonight I just feel soooo sad. I just can't stop crying. I'm having feelings of things that happened so long ago like my great grandparents death. And to top it off I just got into an argument with my fiance. I'm just feeling very sad right now. I just wanted to share because there's no one to talk to. i've never really felt like this in my pregnancy, like cried so much! I hope these feelings go away :( I just can't stop thinking about everything. i hope the baby doesn't feel sad too. thanks for listening girls.

Sorry you're feeling sad- I totally understand. It could be hormonal- I get surges of hormones that are really strong like that- I think I had one at about 32 weeks where I felt the same way. I honestly was on the verge of tears for days at work- just the smallest thought of past events would do it. I lost my Mom to cancer a few years ago and it has been the hardest thing for me-- and being pregnant with twins makes me miss her even more- she would have been so excited and so involved. I thought a lot about her death and that loss too. I hope it passes for you. I don't know how much a baby can understand emotions at this point, but I am sure they sense something going on, but I doubt it is hurting them in any way. After all, they are their own little seperate person, however much they need you to survive right now. Hopefully this will pass and you'll be feeling better- after feeling so sad I actually had a few days where I felt really aggressive and got a lot done- go figure. Hang in there!

Carrie

So sorry you are having it rough! Hope it gets better soon!

Hey Carolina, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling sad, but take comfort in knowing you aren't alone out there - I felt like that for the past couple of days - yesterday was actually the first day I was more like myself... I've had hormonal ups and downs for the past two weeks where all of a sudden something will set off the tears and mild anxiety and boom, I'm a basket case!  Big hugs to you girl... we're in the home stretch now... :)

Ive been having the same emotional ups and downs as you. It totally sucks, because it feels like no one can understand what you are feeling because of certain things that happened in your past that probably didnt in others et****ep thinking about my grandma who I was extremly close to and who passed on 2 years ago, and the fact that my daughter wont get to know her... and it saddens me so. I cry all the time. Some days are better than others. Just remember that you are doing the healthy thing by reaching out and asking for some support. We are all here for you :) Pretty soon your little one will be crying along with you lol.

thanks ladies! I feel not so alone anymore. It was a difficult moment for me. Hey Jen & Vero, were practically due date buddies :) yay!