Well it's official....

congrats on both! I have faternal twins from my last pregnancy, and I was sooooo scared that this time around it be twins again. I am not a real religious nut, but I believe that everything happens for a reason, and god wouldn't give you something that he knew that you wouldn't be able to handle. Never in a million years did anybody, including myself, think I be having kids - here I am expecting my 4th child and I have no idea how I am doing it. Good luck to you momma!

Best of Luck!!!!

I can't believe the religious guilt-trip you're getting from people here.  It's completely inappropriate.

All I was looking for was for some advice, but I get crucified even before I made a decision... It was nice knowing and making some friends here in OH but im done posting and im done with OH.

good luck to you on your baby...and good luck to the other who are expecting.

Mel, we knew this would happen. I am so sorry ...
If, at all possible, hang out to recieve the support from those of us with bruises on our knees from falling off our high horse so many times, and just let the rest go. Remember ... a mile in someone's shoes ... ?!
Hang in there ... sending you love and positive thoughts! xoxo

My message keeps getting erased but the devil is a lair. I love u girl please do not let peoples passions deter or bring u down. Our God is faithful ever loving and kind in everything we do he loves us. Mommy be strong we need you here on OH. It is your decision and it is between you and the father those people who are chastising you need to only trust that God will do it for them as well and not take their frustrations out on you. Well my dear you are loved and appreciated your oh sis, Sue

Sure you can, Georgina. I can't believe it's not worse. I refuse to judge ... not my place. And for everyone throwing around their religious weight, aren't we, as Christians, responsible for loving our neighbors, and isn't it true that No man can judge another?
Certainely more appropriate to PM someone if you feel you must assert your judgement.

Religious guilt trip?  She was the one who came on here saying that she believes there is a God.  Her posting defies logic.  She's going to wait and see what God tells her to do??  Give me a freaking break... don't hide behind God and say that you prayed and prayed and he told you to choose abortion.  I call bull**** 

How inappropriate is it for her to come on here and post about being "accidentally" pregnant and then say she is considering aborting them?  I have been on this board for more than 5 years and I have seen so many women that struggle with infertility pass through this board.  They hope, pray, and sometimes they still don't get a break.  How unfair is that for them in this life?  How awful for them to see someone so careless be given something so precious and then disregard life like it was nothing special.

If you're not ready for more children... prevent it with birth control... or keep your legs closed.  Pregnancy is a possible outcome of sexual activity.  If you're here only to hear what you want to hear... then perhaps you shouldn't post on a public board.  Or ... if you're only looking for people to support you with the decision to abort... maybe do it on an abortion support board. 

B

 

Her religious beliefs don't have to match yours identically to be real.

And yes, it is sad when women struggle with infertility but as far as I know this is a pregnancy board not an infertility board.  There should be room for the entire spectrum here.

And NOBODY should be made to feel guilty because OTHER people can't conceive.  It's sad, but everybody's reality is different.  It's not her fault and she shouldn't feel guilty for other people's fertility problems.

And I think she feels awful enough about this entire situation that she doesn't need people shaming her about her past mistakes.  I'm sure she's feeling guilty enough on her own.