Well it's official....

I have a question.  You believe in God, right?  Why in the world would you assume God would give you any other answer besides to carry these babies??  Do you think God would advise you to destroy a life that HE created??? 

Do your beliefs include a God who wastes his time to create a life and then advises the mother to destroy his creation??  

I think you're deluding yourself into believing that God would be one guiding you to make this decision.  Be a woman and be honest with yourself that YOU would be choosing to destroy these lives.  Don't try and hide behind God.  If anything... RELY on God to get you through any difficulties that you may face through this pregnancy and thereafter. 

B

let me ask u a question u believe in God right? Do you think God is foolish in comanding his people not to JUDGE leave it with her and God to decide. God almighty has given us free will who r u to guilt someone do not try that if you clain to believe it goes for everyone if she makes a decision that you think is wrong keep her in prayer but do not pass your judgeon her it is NOT FAIR and NOT CHRIST LIKE. 

I agree with you that you can't help what does or doesn't happen for other people. It must be a hard decision, 4 kids already and what would be 2 sets of twins. I wish you luck in decided soon on what you guys planning on doing.

 I'm really sorry you have to go through this when you aren't ready.  No judging from me.  I wish you the best in whatever decision you make, you are the one that has to live with it.

thank you very much

I am definitely not a person to judge, but please consider giving them up for adoption if you aren't able to handle the situation.  You would be doing a very wonderful thing for someone who can't have children and making something good come out of a difficult situation.

Good luck on whatever you choose!

-Jennifer

thank you

OMG... I don't even know what to say, I can't imagine what you must be feeling... What ever you decided to do, I am sure u will think it threw... I wish u the best of luck and you in my thought's... 

 

Chrissy

thank you very much

Well I am damn sure that God exists.  Without Him, 'Bella would NOT have been possible.  How do I know that?  Because you don't know how many times I was told there wAS NO WAY in hell I'd have children on my own...even after surgery. 

I prayed and prayed because I love babies.  Love THEM!  I cried, I went to HIM when I was upset and needed someone to understand.  One night, in June I had a dream that He told me that I would conceive a child very very soon.  He told me the child would be a daughter, he told me her name is Isabella.

August 24 I found out I was pregnant.  I was soo at peace then.  But then...I went to the doctor because of some bleeding really early.  I went to the doctor at 5wks, and 5 days and all they saw was a sac and they told me there was NO WAY she would make it.  They wanted to schedule a D and C.  I told them hell no, I'm waiting two more weeks.  And I prayed and Prayed.

Guess what...at 7 wks, they did another u/s...there was that beautiful heartbeat.  And she has been fine ever since.

Do I judge you, Melaney...nope..not my job.  Do I think God will tell you to abort them?  Nope, but then I'm not God either.  Do I think God gives us more than we can handle?  NO way.

My prayers and thoughts are with you...know that He is very real and very close to those that believe without reservations.  He told us to come to Him as if we are little children.  Kids don't have doubts...they just believe.  I could tell you what God told me about Bella when I worried about finances.  God doesn't give more than we can take, and if WE believe him for it, He will provide.

And so far, He has NEVER let me down.

Love you!