Help me to remember.....

Ladies,

I'm currently 21 weeks and 6 days along with my second child.  I've felt quickening for the past few weeks now, but nothing really "impressive".  I mainly feel little spasms here and there, especially after eating.  I rarely feel the baby when I'm up and about and busy during the day.  I'm trying to remember when I started noticing movement every hour during my first pregnancy.  I remember it got to the point in which I felt my first move all the time, no matter what I was doing.  When should the movements pick up with this pregnancy?  Where I can feel her moving from the outside and not just the inside?  Just curious.  I'm trying not to get paranoid, but its hard not to.  I went for a regular ultrasound and then a 4D ultrasound a couple of weeks ago.  She was kicking and moving like crazy both times, and there I lay, not feeling a thing!  One of the techs even seem shocked when I told her I couldn't feel any of it.  Thanks for any insight you can give!

Monet

Wow - 21 weeks already! Congrats!!

I am 34 weeks now and only started to really feel the baby when I was standing up and busy maybe 4-5 weeks ago. Hubby felt baby move the first time at 21 weeks.

I first felt the baby move when I was standing at around 27 weeks and that was just barely, even now it's not strong movement when standing. I could start seeing my belly move around 23 weeks but I think it really depends on the location of the placenta too.