went to the hospital and......

Well first of all hello... I have been having earaches for the past
few weeks and this morning i woke up with a stuffy nose and headache and plus
my ear was hurting so I went to the hospital to get it checked out....the ER doctor said my ear drum looks fine but explained that it might be due to a head cold, so i felt relieved and as i was getting ready to put my stuff on and weight for my discharge papers he asked me for urine.... i said why? he wanted to rule out pregnancy before giving me my meds. so i laughed and said...no im fine..not pregnant here...i have 2 5 and a half month old twins at home so there is no way..he siad please just give me some urine. so of i went and the nurse came back into the room did a pregnancy test and there were two lines....hmmm i said no its wrong, so she explained to me that it might be due because i just had twins my hormones are still out of wack.....what do you think?
So i asked her can she please do another one and that one also came back possitive.
Im still in shock..I cant have this baby..alot of things are going throu my head and I have not told my fiance.

I cant deal and I hope God can forgive me.


Meleney

OMG!!! If i were you, I would have the positive urine test confirmed by a blood test asap!!  I don't know how quickly our HcG levels start to decrease after delivery, but for sure if you're at home with two and a half month old twins, the last thing you need right now is to be pregnant again so soon.. I will pray that this is just a false alarm.. sending big hugs and positive vibes your way!

thank you very much.

OMGosh Meleney i'm sorry you're going through this. I surely am in no position to advise you but wanted you to know you're in my thoughts.

Just wondering .. were you using birth control? could your birth control have failed?

Cathie

Ashamed to admit i wasnt...  :(

 Sorry Meleney that you are going through this!! Have you done a urine test? Or an u/s? Just remember God does everything for a reason! **HUGS**
Jessica

just the two urine test they did in the ER, im afraid to do a home
test pregnancy.. i dont want it to come out possitive...


thank you Jessica

Don't waste your money on a home test, if the ER one was positive, the home one will be - home ones are usually way more sensitive than the ones from doctors.  What you really need is a quantitative blood test (with a number).  Usually anything under 5 is considered not pregnant.  You then want to get another test 2 days later as if you are pregnant (and since you don't want to be, I hope you are not!) that number will go up, it should actually double.

On the upside, I have heard (but don't have proof to back it up right now) that HCG (pg hormone) can take a long time to leave your system, I imagine doubly so in the case of twins.  It was probably just residual hormones.  Chin up, you probably aren't pregnant :)

T :) 

Hey Meleney....

My God...

I don't know what I'd do here.  But try not to freak out just yet.  Easier said than done.  I know you have to be going crazy, but I'd pray about it. 

Put this in God's hands because it is too big for your own.  Ask Him to take care of this situation and of you.

You have to find out first of all if you really are pregnant, and also make decisions that best fit your life. 

But...I am hoping(no judgement at all here!) that if you are pregnant, and just can't have another child, that you carry this one and give it up for adoption.  Thats my personal hope.  But if you can't do it, I still will have you strongly in my thoughts and prayers.  And if you are...please tell your fiance.  ...maybe you guys can figure out whats best together?

I don't know.  I am praying for you right now!

 I'd go to your family doctor and ask for a blood confirmation.  I hope it works out the way you want.  I'll keep you in my thoughts!