I lost my lil angel pumpkin

Liz R.
on 3/21/10 2:29 am - Easton, PA

I'm so sorry :( My story was similar except it was at my first ultrasound at 11 weeks that there just wasn't a baby. Time will make it easier but you will always think of that lil one. Oh the bright side, we were told to wait 1 full cycle to TTC - I had my D&E June 19th. We were given the OK to TTC in July and August 14th my cycle started - I got pregnant that month. The OB told me that your body is "in gear" and this happens a lot of times.

Hang in there and take care of yourself

Liz

Hollywog
on 3/21/10 5:24 am

RNY on 07/07/06

I'm sorry. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to pm me.

Holly
January 2008,
               July 2008
              December 2008
               July 2009
               September 2010
               July 2011
Mom to Khaled

Allie
on 3/21/10 10:35 am

I'm so sorry for your loss!

Hugs!

                                       Allie
      Mom to 5 cuties!! Ages 15, 7, 6, 4 & a 3 month old sweety!
                       -250 Pounds since GBS!

AnnS
on 3/21/10 10:45 am - Smyrna, GA

RNY on 10/25/04

I am so so sorry Kimberly...my thoughts, heart and prayers are with you!

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nursekimberley
on 3/21/10 11:53 am - North Royalton, OH

RNY on 07/02/09

tyvm even a quick note of support helps...

Take care and be at Peace. ~Kimberley

HW-578 SW-VSG-564 SW-RNY-418 CW-386 GW-187
(Planned two step surgery VSG 3/26/08 RNY 7/2/09)

Angel Baby 3-18-2010 missed m/c with d+c

By the way, all things I have posted/commented/breathed are a result of my own personal experience/education/research. Matter of fact, treat it all as a delusion:)

Tabetha A.
on 3/21/10 12:17 pm - Ajax, Canada

RNY on 08/14/07

I am so sorry for your loss.

VeroPero
on 3/21/10 10:04 pm, edited 3/21/10 10:05 pm - Petawawa, Canada

RNY on 11/21/08

Words can't begin to convey my sympathy for your loss.. I'd like to share with you a few thoughts a friend in Japan shared with me last year when I experienced my first miscarriage. May you find peace and comfort in them:

"As a human being progresses on the path towards enlightment, it's said that the number of rebirths between this life and the life in which they get enlightened decreases. (Of course, ideally, one should keep striving to get it in this lifetime, but not everyone is able to do that for many good reasons...)

So, as one gets closer and closer with each rebirth, the length of the lifetime in that life shortens.

So infants who pass away from SIDS or who are stillborn or miscarried, are speeding on to their next lifetime in which they'll get enlightened and work for the benefit of all beings who suffer.

So, you had the honour of carrying a little being that's now on his or her way to doing just that."
Veronique

Highest Weight: 315/Surgery Weight: 293/Current Weight: 154

thetexgal
on 3/21/10 10:47 pm - Fort Worth, TX

Lap Band on 03/08/07

I am so sorry for your loss. I am not going to say I know how you feel as we all feel differently when we have a loss. I will just say that I had a miscarriage last year and an ectopic. I also felt sad and empty. I know what it is like to want a baby so bad.

Just know that we are all here for support. If you need to talk, reach out to someone. Do what you need to do to heal. When you are emotionally and physically healed, you know that you can get pregnant will be able to again. I know that doesn't make it all better, but it is what kept me going every time I was faced with a BFN, a loss, or my ectopic. Some of the ladies on this board were my support when I needed it!

Thoughts and comfort send your way!
Traci