Please tell me I am normal.

Ok, I would like to say that I love the hubby and wouldn't trade him for the world. That is, when I am not preggers.

Does anyone else want to just beat the crap outta the hubby or sig other? He is driving me crazy! I was told no sex until the morning sickness got better since I am so sick with it. He is acting like he is gonna die! He is whiney cause I wont let him play with the girls. All he does is whine about it. He keeps telling me that I should just keep going even with the am sickness. I finally told him I wished 4 weeks of stomach flu on him and that I would tell him to keep going.

LOL i used to pretend i was going to throw up on him, and that pretty much would kill the mood him haha!!!
Now that im past the morning sickness (which he didnt get non for a good 2 months or so)
i still hate him sometimes, but lucky him i have good weeks where i kiss the ground he walks on because i just feel like im bursting open with love for him, and then i have evil weeks where i want to punch him in his mouth. LOL

So hopefully once your morning sickness goes away youll have your good mood swings.

He didnt know if he should trust me when i started having them LOL. hes like really? are you being sarcastic??

Oh yea - there are times he can't look at me without getting yelled at or getting the evil eye. I've had to tell him that sex right now is more of a job then anything else. Sorry but there are too  many things going on down there right now to add one more. He'll live... Lucky for me he works 2nd shift and I am asleep when he gets home - I am a "weekend wife" lol which totally works for me right now! I just make sure I am up well before him saturday and sunday mornings and we avoid the issue - sneaky I know! lol

Good luck and I hope that the MS passes soon!

I think what you and your husband is going through is normal.  I tell people that this pregnancy will cause us to divorce.  He gets on my nerves so bad.  It seems like now that I am pregnant, he is hornier than ever, which gets on my nerves.  I just don't really get in the mood like Liz said because there is so much going on, but it seems like he doesn't get it.  I too am a horrible wife.  I think mu husband is already counting down the days for so many reasons right now.

i hate everyone.

Tell him he needs the practice for the period after the baby comes when he REALLY won't be getting any for 6 weeks or so!
I like the idea of starting to "retch" on him when he's getting frisky!

I think Chris has gotten some maybe 3 or 4 times since we got pregnant.  Poor guy!  His porn addiction has blossomed since that started.  He says he understands and I think at this point he does...but at first...he was like yours...whiney..oh so whiney.  Now he is just used to none.  And now...I want it...but cant find a position that is comfortable so I am perfectly content without it.  Sucks but my sex drive has died!  Here's hoping it comes back one day

I am completely opposite when pregnant. I was "too much" for him.LOL My drive peaked at 4-5 months and I was uncontrollable, but the entire pregnancy I was into it. But I see that others feel the same as you. Just wanted to chime in.

Well not about sex....  I was a horn-ball during pregnancy and wanted sex every day.  (but he couldn't touch my girls - which did make him sad).

Still... I wanted to punch my husband for many other reasons while pregnant....  every little thing he did annoyed me.  LOL. 

Gotta love the horomones!

I'd say you're perfectly normal!

Cindy

lol so glad to hear am not the only one ...seriously think sometimes am loosing it...i dream up torture devices ...thats how bad he anoys me!!!  and he is such a good sport and so loving , even though he does like to contradict me just so i can give him the evil eye...but then again according to everybody else i hate everybody ...except my dog!! lol so i just hate it when they call me hormonal i wanna kill somebody!!  oh well cheers to the joys of pregnancy