Miscarried 2 weeks ago
Found out i was just 6 weeks pregnant and than miscarried one week later. I cant shake the feeling that i will never be able to have kids now. I am 24 in the best health of my life i weigh 148 and don't smoke or drink. I am in a relationship and we are getting married. The baby was not planned but once i found out i was ready to change everything in my life. Then it was just taken away in the blink of an eye.. A part of me now want to try like in a couple months to replace what i have lost but another part of me has a fear that it will happen again. I don't really talk about it with my better half cause i can tell it just upsets him.. I am very happy for the women on here that are pregnant and who have babies.. I just want to get to that point with me as well. And i don't know how to bring up to my partner how i am feeling ... I have never really reach out because I am usually able to just move on when things don't work out but.. this is different. I just wanted to see what everyone thoughts are and if what i am feeling is normal. Thanks, and God Bless.
It's still very fresh for you. Two weeks is not much time to have absorbed what happened. It's not something that you just "move on" from like you can with other things. Give yourself as much time as you need to grieve.
As for your partner, just remember that men handle these things much differently than we do. They don't bond with the baby until much later in the pregnancy when they can see/feel evidence that it's real. My husband could not understand, and probably still doesn't, why I couldn't just get over it when I miscarried. The only thing that made it better was time and then getting pregnant again.
I WAS afraid the same thing would happen again. I got extremely nervous before every ultrasound thinking there would be no heartbeat because that was what happened the first time.
When you're ready to try again, you'll know. Until then just allow yourself to feel whatever you need to. What you're going though is completely normal.
Hang in there.
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