Trying is over

I am so sorry and my heart hurts for you. I can tell you want a baby so bad. I agree with the others - if your husband is so dead set on not having a baby - let him get snipped. Both my husband & I were 38 when we had our son... it isn't too late. AND btw... tell your husband if everyone waited until their house was clean all the time or if they had a chunk of $$ in their savings NO ONE WOULD HAVE A BABY. lol... 

Big Hugs to you...
ERika

I'm going to jump in w/everyone else and say that YOU should not be the one having anything permanently done unless YOU are the one deciding you want to quit trying.  I'd also agree w/Laura that if you can, try to get you and your husband in for some counseling...see if he can reveal is 'real' reason for now deciding he doesn't want to try any more.  My husband and I have talked about it...he still wants to try...but gets somewhat reluctant at the same time, because it upsets him when he sees me upset on the months I am not pregnant...and with each mc we've been through. 

Good luck in whatever you decide to do...but make sure that it's a mutual decision both of you make...not one you gave in to at his insistence.  Your marriage together is a partnership and both of you should have equal say in major decisions like this.

I hope you can work it out and come to a solution you both can agree on.

[[HUGS]]