Hello long time no post & lots of photo's

Hello to all,

I've been missing in action for well over 6 months & wanted to say congrats to the new moms & the moms to be as well as the TTC ladies.

Nate & I are doing good. Nate is in pre-school & doing very well in school. He doesn't stay with his dad but does see him maybe once a week or every 2 weeks but does not go to his house. Nate has a half brother his dad & my x best friend have a child together.

I am doing well just the usual health issues been in & out of the hospital with my liver & kidneys trying to shut down. I did get approved for disabiltiy and that has just started so thats help me out a lot. I go Jan 7th to have a port placed in due to the fact the nurses complain & continue to complain to the doctor that my veins are bad,  Other then that my health is on its way to getting better!!!

Edited: Me & my boyfriend ended our relationship today so no TTC which is for the best thanks Allie for the advice

Just thought I'd post a short update since I've been away for so long for those that keep up with Nate & I.

Here are the most recent pictures of Nate & I and my sweet heart

Nate's school picture


November picture of Nate & I


 Otto & I end of November


Our Christmas picture with Santa


Nate & I Christmas day








Nate says he had the best Christmas yet!!

Love the pics!!! Sounds like things are going well!! I hope the medical stuff gets better!!

Thank you very much for the picture comment & replying!! Hope your doing well

Hey. Might I give you advice against TTC while you're having health issues. Especially if you're talking about getting a port put in PICC or whatever. Obviously your health issues aren't resolved and getting pregnant, even if you DO think you're better or the Dr's think you're better, will cause things like your liver and kidneys to only get worse. And then you have to deal with not being able to get things in your body taking care of due to being pregnant AND having to deal with the question.....is the baby ok? Will the baby make it? Don't put yourself in that position. You know my heart and you know I wouldn't tell you these things if I didn't care. You need to give yourself a year of good health before you get pregnant. One whole year. That's not too much. Give yourself a chance to HEAL. It's been through too much in the past 5 -6 years.

That being said, I wish I had been able to have  1 solid year of good health before I got pregnant. ALthough until this October, I had not been in the hospital in a year exactly almost. And this time I had to go because I had an ulcer and it was causing me a LOT more pain. I had almost had my pain meds weened down, then I had to go back on Dilaudid for a couple months. I'm off of it now thank God. I'm just taking one pain medicine now which is a class B med. I'm weening off of it right now though even though it's not really recommended. But it's not NOT recommended if you know what I mean. I mean, I don't HAVE to go off of it, but I WANT to see if I can. Make sense? I don't like to be on ANYTHING when I'm pregnant. I quit my Cymbalta the DAY I found out I was pregnant. That was hard, but I did it. I quit the other pain med I was taking that day as well. I didn't quit this one because there was no need and it would have been too much at one time to withdraw off of. It would've been too much stress on my body, but if I had needed to quit that one, I would've done it too. Nothing is more important to me than this baby! I'm assured that it will cause no side effects for the baby. I was really scared about that.

Good luck to you. I hope everything works out for you. Nate is cute as a button. Him and Noah look very similar. I can't believe our boys are almost 4!! Almost ready for Pre-K here in TX!!! We're so excited for Noah. (His nickname is Tewy. Isn't that funny?? LOL pronounced like chewy, but with a "T")

Good advice Allie thank you very much!! Not sure I stated it or not but the doctor said that he would let me know in March if he felt it was ok to move forward at trying for another baby if he didn't then that would be put on hold.

I hope your doing better and wow congrats on the new baby to be!!  Yes its amaazing that they are going to be 4 Nate loves school and is so smart he can set and play a super mario on ds lite like the game boy and pass a level. He gets on the computer and does jump start toodler games

Again thanks for the advice and it was nice hearing for you

I pray you have a healthy 9 months!!

If you don't mind will you add me on facebook i've tried adding you

That's cuz I never get on my Facebook. I don't have time to do that stuff anymore. The kids are way too busy. I've been more into reading than getting on the computer in my free time. Can you believe it's snowing here?

I was just giving you the advice on waiting a year cuz I KNOW from personal experience. It's hard on me even now.

I know your giving advice and I will take it trust me it means a lot and yeah i know you know for sure from personal experience and yeah i've spent time in the hospital 4 or 5 times in the last 6 months thats why the dr and ob is watching me close to see if I will be ready i would like to be but its when ever they give me the go ahead if they never then i am ok with it i dont want my body over stressed plus Nate has a half brother so he wont be an only child.. I get on facebook for my phone when watching Nate play computer games but i am around a lot more doing things with Nate and my phone is attached to my pocket lol

thanks for replying