Taking my toys and leaving.

I hope those of you whom are pregnant have wonderful pregnancies, those trying, get their dreams fulfilled. Those with babies and children have wonderful lives. With that said, this is my big dramatic goodbye. I'm leaving with some advice, feel free to critique but I won't respond.

1. Some of you are just crazy. Get some serious help and get your **** together before having a baby.

2. I'm wondering how you will teach your children when you are ignorant.

3. Don't give advice to others if you don't know what the hell you are talking about.

4. Getting pregnant while on drugs and acting like it is God's will is a joke. See the show Pregnant and... on what a baby born to a certain drug will go through. It makes me sick and makes me want cry.

Support is a two way street. I can't be supportive of a lot of the people on this board any more even though so many have been supportive of me and my dieting. Thanks for all you have offered me in the last 5.5 years I have been here, see you on Facebook.!

Jen - You know I'm sorry to see you go, however FB is an easy route for me to get ahold of you!

I honestly havent been posting because of many of the reasons you have stated, so THANK YOU for stating them.

Sorry you are leaving (but I already left...well, down to like 1 post a week for TTC'ers).  Facebook is better anyways;)

Can I just say that I want to keep adding to your list too or at least want to expand on #3....

Yeah, that! I've been gone so long (most of the time) that most of the people here don't even know who I am...LOL.

I could add a ton of others, but in the spirit of Christmas giving, I've decided to give everyone a break.

Love you lots and see you on FB!!

You speak the truth!!  See ya on FB! 

Well since I do not celebrate Christmas guess I can be the grinch.I could also use the reasoning that I argued with my parents last night, but I won't..I will own up to...I WANT TO POST THIS because I need to get it out there and it is MY opinion and I am entitled. End of story. With that said, Jennifer, I am also sad to see you go. I am sure there will be posts that will arise stating that we are all banding together on some train to be mean and negative Nellies and what not but I think it is on the contrary. People can di**** out, but not take it, and if we are all in fact grown womEn, well why not? Life, and this board, are not all rainbows and butterflies. I can't and don't like everybody, whether I meet them on a forum or in person. I can respect you and not like you, it is part of being an adult. I try to withhold my personal opinions of individual situations because realize that if I have not been there, done that, and am not a qualified medical professional, why bother...but then...it IS an OPINION, and one I am entitled to, if people do not like it, tough TITTIES as my Daddy used to say. It seems that if anyone disagrees with someone's opinion or advice they are a jealous know-it-all ***** when in fact they are the rational ones. People come on here and post questions or thoughts with a conceived notion of what they want or expect the responses to them to be and when someone says, NO, that is bad, or NO, I think that is not right...then shame on them? What the hell? Why ask if you know? This board was phenomenal when I was pregnant with Emad and then after and in the 2 years since but is not what it once was. I can truly say I wish no ill will towards anyone BUT am, like you, saddened by the plight of some. And YES, the spelling and grammatical errors do bother me. If we are all adults, then we should be able to address each other as that, and do so in a fashion that we can all understand, short of slang and nicknames for body parts, and dodging the words sex, vagina, penis, ****** etc because we after all must know what that all is because somehow we use all the above to try and get pregnant...unless of course you are one who had the proverbial oops, slipped and fell on it, or whatever else nonsense I see here. NO ONE gets accidentally pregnant. You have sex...you have a chance....whether you use contraception or not. I don't care if you were told for years on end you would never have a child, you had been on the pill, you used a condom, or one of the million other reasons...fact of the matter is...penis enters vagina, man *********s, you have ovaries and a uterus, you CAN get pregnant! End of story.

VERY, VERY, VERY well said! I am rarely ever on here myself. I see so much garbabge on OH anymore it makes me sad. I have been an OH member since 2002 and it has just changed so much.

I agree I loved this board when I was preggers with Lex. There are a few of you, like you, that keep me coming back just to read how you are. Are you on FB? I would love to follow my little Emad there!

Yes, please add me

Email is [email protected]

im sorry to see you go... that being said.. im going to get my cookies and watch :)

I am going to miss you but will see you on FB... :-)