update on me/ rant at the end...and picture

So I know I haven't updated in a while and I'm sorry. So I am going to do it now. Also, there is a question at the end (so if you want to jump down to it).

So on me first. According to my OBs scale..which I base my pregnancy gain/loss off of...as of Monday I weigh 174lbs. That is my first gain since I got pregnant. I started out at 199 when I got pregnant, got as low as 169, and am now 174...making me still at a loss of 25lbs. I doubt I will ever get at a positive gain this pregnancy and I am not complaining hehe.

As for baby girl, she is still a girl and gaining weight at a healthy pace…last checked she was 12 ounces (3 weeks ago). As for the Down syndrome scare, I decided not to get an amnio done. I am going to keep her no matter the results and if I do change my mind and want a definite answer I will do it at 30 weeks. Reason why I am not getting the amnio done is all my screenings and blood work has good back amazing, no concerns and the only thing they are basing this conclusion off of is a small nasal bone and a really tiny hole in her heart. After a serious conversation with the genetics counselor she said she is chalking up the small nose to genetics (since mine is so small) and the hole has already been determined to close by 30 weeks if not by birth (so not really a marker). So her and my OB both said if they were in my shoes they would not bother with the amnio as the chances of complications from it are higher than the chances of her having downs. So thats settled.

However, I am in the process of switching where I am getting u/s done. Why? Because the doctor they call in when tech needs help is a huge ASS. Hes the one who scared me originally when he couldnt find her nasal bone. Then when I went for my follow-up u/s he suggested the amnio again...basically telling me I needed to do it. I almost did it that day but the counselor even told me she wouldnt do it. Now when they called him in during my echo (standard procedure) he asked me if I had got it done and I told him no and I wasn't going to. He attempts to make me feel bad telling me I should get it done so I tell him why I am not. He tries to find the genetic counselors name so he can report her for giving me her personal opinion (btw in wasn't in my chart). In the end I had to tell him to back off. Just like the counselor isnt supposed to make my decision you cant either and I have already chosen not to. He gets all but wont you want to know if she does and the nasal bone is not controversial and yada yada ya and I have to stop him again and tell him do not bring it up again (as I was getting to the verge of tears over this again) and that I have researched this enough and yes it is controversial so do not lie to me and he gets pissy finishes the u/s, tells me the hole is small and should close by 30 weeks or birth, suggests a follow up u/s in 8 weeks (30 weeks) and walks out. The tech apologizes for his rude behavior (as she looked sad during the whole thing because I guess she could see the anger building in me) and tells me it will be fine.

So question, what would you do in this situation? Would you report him? If so who do I report him to?

Sorry this is so long but I didn't want to make multiple post and clog the board. But thats my update. And heres a picture...22 weeks. Oh and I had to finally give in and buy maternity jeans yesturday .