Hubby changed his mind

Well... My hubby told me this summer that we could start to try and have another baby in the new year! Starting in January.
Now he tells me that its not a good idea!
Because of money and space.
I get it but I am so very upset.
I want another baby, and I would have liked to have one sooner then later!
Grrrr.... Sorry I had to vent!
Oh come on lottery!!!!!!!

Sorry to hear that.  Maybe he will change his mind again.  Do you have any children yet?  If you are going to wait because of money and space then you will never end up having a baby.  There is no perfect time.  I hope your DH realizes this. 

good luck,
Bambi

I hope he changes his mind too!
We have two girls 3.5 yrs and 5 yrs
I'd like to try for a boy :-)
I've try to tell DH that if we wait for more money and space then he will be an old fart before we have another baby lol!
I told him that I really dont want a huge gap between the girls and the new baby!
I'll be 30 in January
Also my hubby's gettin up there in age. He'll be 41
Thanks for listening!

Hi,
gotta laugh, not at you, but I will be 39 when this baby is born.  LOL

I have a 13 yearold stepdaughter(Xmas Eve is her b-day)

My son will be 11 in June and my daughter will be 3 the day after Xmas.  So DD and Step DD are 10 years apart.  Then my kiddos are 7 and a half years apart.  Then I am due in July with this baby.  We have all kinds of spread going on. 
 
I thought I was done after having my daughter, but my children's father passed away 2 years ago, he was 37.  Then I re-married Ben, we graduated high school together and reconnected in the summer of 2008.   Ben had never been married  before and he really wanted one more baby.  So, here I sit, 11 weeks with my last baby!  Life has a funny way of changing when you least expect it to!

Hopefully your DH will change his mind and try for that boy.  That's what we are doing...but either way we don't care what we have!  But DH would really like a son of his own. 

Bambi

LOL!
Life does have a way of doing crazy things lol
Good luck to you on your pregnancy.
You must be so happy. And I hope you guys get a boy!
But of course another girl is great too!
I hope to be on here talking about my pregnancy soon!
Fingers crossed
Thanks

Dont get discouraged hon!! Space inbetween isnt all that bad, me and my brother are seven years apart (not that you wanna wait that long lol) but we still close!! And my children are 12, 9 and 7 and im 5months preggers, so there is gonna be a lil gap but they are all excited and ready to help (i think thats what has me so calm about having number four cause i got a team of helpers. lol) I hope he changes his mind, but if not, it'll be okay!! Good luck!!

Thanks!
I just dont want him to be an old fart when the kids are older! LOL!!!
He'll be 41 in April, he's gettin up there hahaha

LOL!! I hear you loud and  clear girl!! I had it all planned out, i had my first when i was 20 and the rest were 2 years apart, so w hen she was 20 i was only gonna be 40 and live the life, still looking good etc. well hell, now im preggers again and when she is 20 im gonna be 52  WTH!! lol!

psst.....(ima still look good though!! lol)

If everyone waited until they had enough money and space, the human race would become non-existent. J/K Seriously.....what an upset! Tell him your maternal clock is ticking. Tell him you only have a few good eggs left....lol Tell him the baby is only 20 inches when it's born. How much more space does it need?

Ok I was just seriously trying to make you laugh and doing a pretty poor job of it. I hope you win the lottery if that's what'll make him agree. Do you think the money and space thing is just an excuse? Or is there REALLY not enough money and space. Cuz, if we can have 4 almost 5 kids in OUR house, ANYONE can have just one little baby. I'm not telling you our square footage, but just TRUST ME! LOL No we don't have a tiny apartment or a one room house or anything. I just seem to think that a family our size needs about 3,500 sq. feet, which we DON'T have.....lol

You did make me laugh lol

We already have two girls 5 and 3.5 yrs
We live in a small house
It is crazy here.
Hubby is worried about the girls not getting what they need or want if we have another baby.
There really isnt a lot of money to go round lol.
And yes... the lottery would change his mind! lol

I just cant stand how men can say one thing and go back on it!
If we did that we would be banished lol

Not fair :-(