Vent!!

NOTE: This is a pregnancy/husband vent*** if you are easily offended by my venting of something pregnancy related please feel free to not read!! Thank you and have a wonderful day!!

 

Now if your not easily offended.. Please tell me why my hubby is on his way to getting a good swift kick in the butt when he gets back on the 24th from Florida. We have been apart for 2 months while he started his job in FL. The kids and I will move after marshall is born.. I tell him (jokingly.. kinda) Hey hunny, if you want any loving better get it before I have baby because there wont be much happening for a few weeks after!!!! He is all for it.. Then today he brings it up.. that I should be READY for it.. Well no duh butthead!! What did i think was gonna happen if Marshall wasnt born yet!!!  So i know im hormonal but why would he get all pissy like that and  Iknow I have to realize he hasnt had any in two months.. But i was just thinking... ??What about me ?? Im gonna have a baby and all that good crap and now you wanna get on my case about getting some booty!!

LOL.. I know.. I need to calm down... Does anyone understand?? Are you dh's feeling like they are lacking in the sex department??

Unfortunately most men are just naturally ass-hats when it comes to sex..LOL  What they don't understand is that when we are pregnant and they are getting booty...they should be thanking their lucky stars, because most the time we are doing it as a favor or with the thought that it "might" help us go into labor..LOL  

I understand...and vent away :)

Laura 

I am only in the first trimester and with all my days of not eating and when i do eat feeling like its going to come back up plus being tired and feeling like i could sleep for weeks and still be tired....Chad isnt really getting it a lot....he gets whiney when I reject him cause Im tired....It annoyes me too!  I thought I was just a horrible girlfriend/fiance.  I know in the second trimester it gets better but then again I have been told the 3rd is horrible and most ppl dont want it then either...so..I guess its just trial and error.  Dont feel bad, you offered it, he shouldnt have gotten out of line!  Hormones or not!

butt head! I am sure that many hubbys are getting deprived! lol mine sure is- sex is already uncomfortable!

Hope that you are doing well!

*hugs*

Liz

ahhhh...men...what can i say...LOL...alls i know is from the beginning of my pregnancy i have had a ton of complications and was told from the first appointment no sex.  my baby is due soon and my poor husband has been deprived...luckily he doesnt complain...but i am sure he wants too!
you are totally normal to be annoyed...sometime they are just clueless!!!
hang in there!