Let's talk about S-E-X

AMMMEN!!! My hubby knows the only time he is getting it is between CD10-18 other than that closed for business - so the last time was Halloween - poor guy! LOL! I usually give in around 16 weeks.

WOW glad my hubby isn't the only one freaked out by this! thanks for all the input!!

 I accidentally erased my post :(

....but my hubby is actually the opposite.  

He always wants to give the baby a little "fertalizer" to help him grow.  (rolling my eyes) haha!

haha omg too funny

maybe looking some stuff up online or in a book and showing him might ease his mind! Or talking to the Dr.

I think it's fairly common for husbands and also the pregnant mom to feel that way.   My husband loves the fact that I'm preggo, that he GOT me pregnant, loves seeing my belly poking out (I actually have one now that I'm skinny this pregnancy) and it makes him want me even more!  lol 
Now ME on the other hand- my sex drive has gone down a lot.   Because I'm tired and have a big belly in the way.   I don't have a little waist anymore and I've gained back almost 10 lbs.  And the first 12 wks, I was very nauseated and throwing up and that totally turned me off to sex.  I don't feel sexy at ALL right now and the baby moving around in there doesn't make it as enjoyable being intimate with my husband.  We used to do it a few times a week and now hubby is lucky to get it once every week or every 2 weeks (and he's the one to initiate it usually)!! 

And yeah, sex for me both times after the first two kids didn't get back to "normal" until the baby was at least a few months old!  I had to recover from having the baby, have my milk regulate for b/f, and most of all I had to get some sleep and be able to function!!   Poor dh hates waiting the 6 wks after I have the babies but I could care less.  On the 1st baby, we only waited like 3-4 weeks and with my 2nd, I tore so bad with her that I had to wait the full 6 wks to have sex.

GL and this might not last forever with your hubby, it might just be temporary!

Yeah I never had that problem - it was reversed - I never wanted to have sex - it was just uncomfortable all the time. But Andy always wanted to "sword fight" with Drew - MEN!!