Update on longing for another baby

 So..I posted to you all...and just really was emotionally struggling that particular day with knowing I was not at all able to have another baby...even if I wanted to.  So, I had gone as far as to text message my hubby and ask him if I could have my tubal reversed.  I even started researching and found that now they are not doing reversals so much, as just IVF...as your body is still making eggs, they just cannot get down to the uterus.  I found that very interesting.  His response of course was WHAT THE HELL?  LOL  Then I told him my issues.  He said it would pass, which it sort of has, and I said ok.  

But, get this...I could have KILLED him.  We are members (well more than members we are both part of the elected board, him the assistant director and me the treasurer) of our National HOG...harley owners group chapter.  We do tons of rides and raise money for charities...etc.  Anyway...we are sitting at breakfast yesterday with about 20 of our friends from the chapter and he stands up and says....I need an intervention for my wife...and I am thinking...WTF are you talking about...and so he proceeds to read them our discussion over text regarding having another baby...well of course they all know we have 8 and have lived through my health issues with us this past year...so of course they were all like...NO NO NO...I was so embarrassed I could have killed him.  I have yet to discuss it with him because I know I would start yelling about it...and I want to be calm when I talk to him because it is not worth having a big fight over...but...geeeezus...some things are private!!!!!

Anyhoo...I am doing better...and I am going to go hold Sonya's babies and that will make me feel better :)

Thanks to all *****plied before...you made me feel like less of a freak :)  

Laura

i would have thrown my fork at him...your better then i

I would have KILLED him. And said a few choice things about him too.

Ugh! I would have put a fork in his favorite body part!!! I think sometimes they think that they are helping but they are really just being schmucks. I am sure that he had the best of intentions - but it is so wrong!!

*hugs* glad that you are doing better now and that you got to snuggle a baby!

Loz

oh Laura,
I think I would have stabbed him with a fork as well!  sometimes men just don't get that there are certain things we want to be kept private. 

MEN! 

but we still love them don't we?

Bambi