Ugh!

Kathy W.
on 11/23/09 5:05 am - Enfield, CT
RNY on 01/15/08 with
I swear all I ever do posting wise on here is ***** and complain. Today is another of those days. All I can do is cry. I miss Munchkin. I don't want to do Thanksgiving with 3 kids born this year and one of them will be turning one about the same time I would have been due. I HATE feeling like this. I really hope that I am not the only one that has a hard time about healing like this. I usually bounce back a lot easier than this.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

biggeekgirl
on 11/23/09 6:19 am

I'm sorry, Kathy.  *hugs* 

When I found out I was pregnant with my first a co-worker announced his wife was pregnant.  I hadn't announced it yet -- as I was waiting 12 weeks.  Well I lost the baby at 7-8 weeks (ectopic - but heart was beating in my tube.) 

Even though I got pregnant with Cooper (whom I love VERY much) I still see pictures of that baby born right around when mine would have been born and it makes me sad. 

I think it's something you'll never get over -- even if you have a dozen more babies. 

Maybe you can skip the family Thanksgiving this year and do something more low key? 

Take Care!

Cindy

Surgery on 4/25/05 , Dr. Alverdy in Chicago.  God Bless the DS !!!
Highest Weight = 412lbs, Surgery Weight = 359lbs, Current Weight = 155lbs (5'7" tall)http://www.picturetrail.com/gid8138761
 Lilypie



 
emily B.
on 11/23/09 7:11 am, edited 11/23/09 10:07 am - MO
I miss carried in November of 2006. I miss our baby so much. I am lucky have have 3 other children and a baby on the way but I know there is a gap a hole in our family. I do not think you ever completely get over it. Some days are definitely better than others.

Sending you Hugs,
Emily
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Mom to DS 9, DD 7, DS 4 and 1 angel.
Liz R.
on 11/23/09 7:26 am - Easton, PA
KAthy - I was just thinking about the baby that I lost on the way home tonight. I am eternally grateful that this baby is healthy but I was still thinking wow - I would be due in just over a month!

*hugs* I agree - maybe a take out Thanksgiving is in order this year!
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