The condom broke ! Is it possible to share the love?

When my DD was little (she's now 6), I felt the same way. I thought of having a second as splitting my love in half and sharing it with two kids.

The fact is, though... the love in your heart isn't divided into two, it's doubled.

I did not think I could but guess what? I love the 2nd and the 3rd just as much! I have special time with each and it is awesome!

Well...lol

I got pregnant while using a condom... to top it I am having twins... I don't know how, all we can think of is that the condom broke and we didn't know. Were in that small percentile and I was freaking out for the longest time... Because I am not a year out yet. I just thought it was odd that we still got pregnant. 

I love all 4 of my kiddos a ton!!!!!!.

Some days I love one more than the other.

But that is due to pre-teen hormones and the terrible twos! ( and my lack of patience some days!) but seriously.............there is tons of room for more love!

I felt the same way, as my 2 are exactly 10 years apart. He was My "Little Buddy", and i feared i could not feel the same way about my little girl. I fall in love with them both more and more each day. My little girl has been such a blesing to our family! I see my 10 year son with his little sister...........he is like her second Daddy. He has made me so proud.

Oooy a broken condom is my fear!
As for the love oh my gosh YES it just multiples I just had my 5th baby and honestly I am SOOO in LOVE with this baby it is amazing how your love grows and it is really great how you can love them all the same!

Beth

Having just had my fourth I can tell you that YES you can love more then one, but what I have learned is that you don't love them all the same way. Each one has something that just belongs to them, that makes them special to you, so while you love them as their mother, you find that each one endears themselves to you in a diffrent way that makes the love special to just them. It's amazing how big your heart can grow.

Hmmmm...what are the chances....look down at my signature...that 3 yr 7 mon old girl is the result of a broken condom.  Was shocked at the time...now not so much as I got another one after that!

Good Luck!

I think you get the picture, it is absolutely normal.  I cried and cried for so long thinking I could never love a child like my firstborn.  Boy was I wrong.  This is how I explain it to the boys:  Love is like sunlight. It can be bright and strong and illuminate two people or three or four just as brightly as one.  I remember being in your position and thinking its impossible, but it really is.

Wishing you the best.