My first blow up....these dang hormornes!!
So I must first say, I am so blessed to have such a wonderful relationship with my hubby....we hardly ever disagree let alone ever have a fight....couldn't even tell you if I would ever classify one as a fight. Well the other night, I guess my hormones got the best of me (which so far have been pretty good). First, I was hungry (no, I mean starving); tired from being at the amusement park all day; and waiting on my slow husband to get his list together for the store. Well my step daughter wanted to take a bath, but I told her she would get one when we came back from the store....so being the six year old that she is....she came and ask dad to run her a bath....so he thinks i sent her to tell him to do it....so he starts her bath....boy when I heard tha****er running.....I could have flipped....now how silly does that sound???? Needless to say, after i blew up at him; I took the dog outside and cried. I am so not the fustrated, angry, whatever you want to call it type...I am very go with the flow kinda person. The interesting thing was my hubby came down (I am sure could tell I was crying) never said a thing, acted like I never blew up and we went to get some food and store...came home and Jas got her bath!
Okay ladies, you remember your first blow up moment?? think I have done pretty good for being in my 15th week....LOL
Hope you all have a stress free night....Stacey
Okay ladies, you remember your first blow up moment?? think I have done pretty good for being in my 15th week....LOL
Hope you all have a stress free night....Stacey
Stacey
RNY-10/27/04
Sounds pretty normal. It is wonderful to have a hubby that can roll with the punches especially when a women can act so irrational at times.
The two blow ups I had were at 16 and 17 weeks and seem to be when I am about to go into preterm labor. Both times I ended up in the ER later that night for preterm labor. There really wasn't anything going on, cannot even remember what was happening but I can tell you I could not handle ANYTHING. Anything anybody said I just snapped. Thought they were going to drive me BONKERS. Afterwards I told my hubby, I guess I get completely irrational when I am going into preterm labor and he laughed. The second time it happened he actually commented that I was going to end up in the hospital with contractions. I am also very blessed with a hubby who seems to understand that I am in a situation where I am just not always going to be in control.
Not that I haven't irritated the crap out of him but I have made sure that he can go out every now and then with a friend for a beer and some air hockey. He can blow off some steam and just relax. But he is here with me and on the phone when he can't be. Just give him a big hug and kiss and say thank you. When he asks why just say cause he is great. They love that LOL.
Good luck!
The two blow ups I had were at 16 and 17 weeks and seem to be when I am about to go into preterm labor. Both times I ended up in the ER later that night for preterm labor. There really wasn't anything going on, cannot even remember what was happening but I can tell you I could not handle ANYTHING. Anything anybody said I just snapped. Thought they were going to drive me BONKERS. Afterwards I told my hubby, I guess I get completely irrational when I am going into preterm labor and he laughed. The second time it happened he actually commented that I was going to end up in the hospital with contractions. I am also very blessed with a hubby who seems to understand that I am in a situation where I am just not always going to be in control.
Not that I haven't irritated the crap out of him but I have made sure that he can go out every now and then with a friend for a beer and some air hockey. He can blow off some steam and just relax. But he is here with me and on the phone when he can't be. Just give him a big hug and kiss and say thank you. When he asks why just say cause he is great. They love that LOL.
Good luck!
oh mine was when I was only like 7 weeks pregnant. With my other 2 pg's I didn't have such wild emotions at first with my pregnancies, I wonder if it's because I am much lighter (130 lbs lighter) with this pregnancy and the hormones are in fuller force going through my body! I am normally a easy going, laid back person that can handle almost anything. In this first episode I had, I hadn't told my sister yet that I was pregnant, but I had told my Mom. I was over at my Mom's house with my 2 yr old, my Mom, and my sister just hanging out this day that I totally freaked out.
My sister and Mom were talking about something that we needed to work out about a vacation with the family and I just totally started yelling at both of them because I felt like they were being mean to me and not agreeing with me about something. And then I started bawling my eyes out and telling them that I had to leave. I tried to grab my 2 yr old from my Mom and she wouldn't let go of my daughter. She just had a big smile on her face and knew why I was acting like this- but my sister just sat there and stared at me like WTH is your problem. I finally got my daughter from my Mom and then went out to the car and put my daughter in. I then sat there bawling and talking to my Mom and sister. I told them I had to leave and didn't want to be there anymore. My Mom said that my sister left shortly after that and was really sad that she had upset me that much and didn't know what was going on. She said that we've gotten along so well for so long and haven't had a fight like that for years and years. My Mom called me later and I told her I was sorry for being so dumb and she just laughed and said she understood. But I felt like a total idiot and wondered what the heck was wrong with me (but I knew why).
I then told my sister the next week that I was pregnant and she totally understood why I acted the way I did the week before. I felt so embarrassed though about how I had acted. I was like that with my kids and hubby for a few weeks too and thankfully it went away.
My sister and Mom were talking about something that we needed to work out about a vacation with the family and I just totally started yelling at both of them because I felt like they were being mean to me and not agreeing with me about something. And then I started bawling my eyes out and telling them that I had to leave. I tried to grab my 2 yr old from my Mom and she wouldn't let go of my daughter. She just had a big smile on her face and knew why I was acting like this- but my sister just sat there and stared at me like WTH is your problem. I finally got my daughter from my Mom and then went out to the car and put my daughter in. I then sat there bawling and talking to my Mom and sister. I told them I had to leave and didn't want to be there anymore. My Mom said that my sister left shortly after that and was really sad that she had upset me that much and didn't know what was going on. She said that we've gotten along so well for so long and haven't had a fight like that for years and years. My Mom called me later and I told her I was sorry for being so dumb and she just laughed and said she understood. But I felt like a total idiot and wondered what the heck was wrong with me (but I knew why).
I then told my sister the next week that I was pregnant and she totally understood why I acted the way I did the week before. I felt so embarrassed though about how I had acted. I was like that with my kids and hubby for a few weeks too and thankfully it went away.
Hit goal weight of 140 at 13 months out from RNY!! 130 pounds GONE! 
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