So confused is this af or IB??

So back story ... I use to have a 32 day cycle .. moved to morocco and it went all out of whack lol anywhere from 29-36 days.  So fast forward to this month.  About a week/week and half ago I started getting sore breast and slight nausea, something I have NEVER gotten before AF. 

Was suppose to start anywhere from Oct. 24Th-29Th.  When the 29Th came and still sore bb and no signs of AF I took a test and got BFN.  Then On the 30th Morning when I wiped there was blood so I was like AF has arrived .... but no nothing since then .. nothing on the pantie liner no cramps nothing .. but a few times I have wiped  a mixture of yellowish to brownish red but for the most part I get nothing ..  .. I am so confused .. Is this a reallllllllly light period or could this be implantation bleeding???  (sorry for TMI) 

B****he soreness in my breast comes and goes .. hasn't gotten worse but hasn't gone away completely either ...  

I won't be able to test again until DH returns next wed from traveling .. as I am in Morocco its not so easy for me to get a test on my own .. and I really don't want to get my Mil's hopes up for something that may not be ...

Any input you guys have would be great!! Thanks in Advance!!

I'd guess you still have a chance of being pg.  Do you do any charting/temping?  That's the best way to look for your ovulation (chart it in FertilityFriend.com).  If you can get to a pharmacy there, most will have someone who speaks a little English - and you can make almost any understand re pregnancy.  I think that the Arabic word for pregnancy is 'hamil,' or something like that.  Maybe Samara will hop in here and confrm that or give more info on what exactly to ask for.

Good luck!

Ma sala'ama.

Salam,

How are you!!?!?!

I don't chart or temp or anything like that ... this was our 2nd month of not prevent .. and pretty much leaving it in the hands of allah ..

Its not so much telling them I need a test .. I can speak enough moroccan to figure that out lol .. its getting to the pharmacy .. as I don't drive here.  So it would be much less of a headache to wait til Mohamed gets back then try to figure out how to get there lol


Thanks for the reply :-) 

I'll be waiting for an update of the next test...Insha'allah, it'll be good news.  That'd be a good way to welcome Mohamed home wouldn't it.  Does your MIL have any grand kids yet?

I WASN'T trying to get pregnant and the SAME exact thing happened to me.  I thought AF was late, thought I finally got it but it lasted a day, was super light and went away....waited a few more days and HELLO!!  Pregnant!  I think sometimes we ovulate later than we expect.  I'm a day 19 kind of girl.  I think by the time your hubby is back on Wednesday should be good.  :-)

Good luck!
Sandy

I figure the same thing .. either by then I should get a heavier flow or a BFP lol ..



thanks for your reply!!

Good luck. And if this isn't your cycle I post on fridays for those trying...feel free to join in for extra support. Shari

Inquiring minds want to know....did you test again?  Anything?

Well I didn't need to test again .. I started bleeding really bad on Sunday thought it was AF so didn't think much of it.  But then there were lots of blood clots and floating things (sorry TMI) I went to the doctor today and I suffered a M/C.  They gave me Something to help finish what my body started and they gave me a  months supply of B/C to get me back on track.  So Alhumdulillah that is my update.


Thanks for checking in :-)

I'm sorry.  As I'm sure you know, that early into the pregnancy, there's nothing you or the drs could have done to stop it.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband as you go through this.  Insha'allah, the next time you're pg, you'll get to hold your little one.