Major PPD & Cal State Disability? Help!
Hey- sorry I'm late chiming in too. Let me say that I ended up taking four months off when my daughter was ten months old for many of the same reasons. It was one of the best things I ever did. I was able to really take care of me, which is important for your little girl too!! It was great. Don't feel bad about having to do what you need to do. Sometimes being a Mom and working too sucks!! I go through that phase every few months or so, and I always wish I could be a SAHM, but no such luck here. And if the principal you work for starts gossiping or causing problems for you, get her into trouble over it!! I love getting bosses in trouble for breaking confidentiality, especially over something so hard for you and your family. Keep us posted!!
Carrie
Carrie
I just went through the exact same thing earlier this summer it does get better! :) I too went to a psych - who found the right combo for me - actually my OB sent me to the Psych.
I am in the state of CA, they pay 55%. There is a 7 day waiting period if your disability is not being extended and has already ended. What state do you live in?
I am in the state of CA, they pay 55%. There is a 7 day waiting period if your disability is not being extended and has already ended. What state do you live in?
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Bailey Rachelle Renee 8/21/07, Baby #2 in heaven 4/12/08,
Isabella Ava Rose 6 18/09, Carter Kenneth 7/14/10
Bailey Rachelle Renee 8/21/07, Baby #2 in heaven 4/12/08,
Isabella Ava Rose 6 18/09, Carter Kenneth 7/14/10
Oh sweetie, you are SO wise to have sought out help! I didn't when I had my 1st baby and relied on unhealthy means to get through working FT and PPD.
I didn't read the pp's so hope I'm not being redundant. I would rely on your psychiatrist more for finding the help you need. They are a DR and have better access to different types of State assistance and local resources. With a Dr's note, you should qualify for medical/sick leave. Mental health is as much a medical condition as any physical ailment.
I just have to reiterate that even though logic tells us that we should be fine and lots of women deal with this stuff, it's a lot different when it's happening to us. You aren't being weak by asking for help, you are doing the very best thing you can for yourself and your baby!
My hubby is gone most of the time (2 FT jobs) and with 3 little ones and running a home business, there are still times I'm screaming for Calgon. But I promise you that it does get easier and you will find yourself and the right fit between working and being a mom. You'll just find it sooner with help than I did without
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Please don't hesitate to PM if you ever need anything. Feeling alone makes everything worse, so know that you're hugged and thought of!
Hugs,
I didn't read the pp's so hope I'm not being redundant. I would rely on your psychiatrist more for finding the help you need. They are a DR and have better access to different types of State assistance and local resources. With a Dr's note, you should qualify for medical/sick leave. Mental health is as much a medical condition as any physical ailment.
I just have to reiterate that even though logic tells us that we should be fine and lots of women deal with this stuff, it's a lot different when it's happening to us. You aren't being weak by asking for help, you are doing the very best thing you can for yourself and your baby!
My hubby is gone most of the time (2 FT jobs) and with 3 little ones and running a home business, there are still times I'm screaming for Calgon. But I promise you that it does get easier and you will find yourself and the right fit between working and being a mom. You'll just find it sooner with help than I did without
. Please don't hesitate to PM if you ever need anything. Feeling alone makes everything worse, so know that you're hugged and thought of!
Hugs,
Jo
DS:9 yrs old / DD:5 yrs old / DS: 1 yr old
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