Oh well

Once again, wrong!  It has ZERO, let me say ZERO to do about the stupid effin' bows Andrea!!!!!

All I wanted to know is how and why myself and my child ended up being a conversation on you're FB page!  That's it!  Get that through you're brain sweetie.....if you cant find room with all the bull**** that's in you're head!  You took the lead and the other people who commented followed up with the most hurtful comments.  Hell the people on you're friends list said more than you.  The fact is still that it was on YOUR PAGE!  You started it.

I could give a rats a$$ how long you have been here.  It's a public forum an shouldn't matter who has been here the longest.  In the 2 years I've been here I have seen more drama and it's funny how it's always linked to you and Ann, etc.

You didn’t just go there… Ann and Andrea are the cause of all the DRAMA?? Really did you not just start this post? Did you not leave it alone when it got deleted by TOS??   You have been a great source of Drama as well… no one can really follow all your lies… and bull ****… Anyways I thought you were moving??   After the comments you made to Ann about her infertility… you have decided to open this can of worms? And please don’t tell me you know anything about infertility… you have two children and one on the way… YOU DON’T KNOW ****   Honestly… I can’t stand you. I wouldn’t be upset if you ever came back to this board. What you are failing to realize is… this is a public forum… so anyone can take your pictures and information and post them on ANY website… Can make whatever comments they want… Get over it. You don’t want people to comment then don’t post and not come here… You can be googled and this site will come up with your comments... so please, go play your games some where else... you only support those you want to support... and I'm sure you're talking **** behind others backs...   Grow up.

Andrea - I believe I may have the email at home. I just got back from my 12weeks appt.

I do have a great memory... so if you need to me to vouch I will...

Then again... she isn't going to try it now...

Also - I posted on your link and yes I also think the bows are horrible and they hide a beautiful little girl.

You know, we posted about tattoos the other day, and somebody replied they're TACKY TACKY TACKY - TO the very people who had some.  When you post something on the internet, it becomes public domain. You open it up for discussion and judgment from the folks who see it - which could be ANYONE IN THE WORLD.  And they can have ANY OPINION THEY WANT.

So, if you don't want anyone saying anything negative about your little one's headgear, then DON'T POST IT ON A PUBLIC FORUM. 

With that said, the baby is cute, and nobody's disputing that.  The bows were as big as her head, and I could understand if that's not everyone's cup of tea.  Does that make it a horrible thing to say, or are you just sensitive becuase your child was wearing it and you chose it? 

The fact that it was posted on FB doesn't really matter.  The photos were already on the internet for all the world to see - because YOU put them there - and they didn't get any more public on FB.  B.  BUT you took it to the next level and revealed confidential information about Andrea.  THAT is against the TOS here on OH.

Even IF Andrea was wrong to comment on photos you posted publically (which I don't believe she is at ALL), then exposing Andrea's private info (which IS wrong) just compounded the issue.  In other words, TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT.

Seriously how long will this go on?  Until someone takes their toys and leaves the sandbox?!  I didn't see the first post but pretty much know what was done based on the responses. Now you have gotten some support in your quest but really you need to step away from the computer and let it go!! We ALL understand you think what was done was wrong but it was done and that can't be changed and Andrea explaining her actions wont change it either so PLEASE let it go!

TEAM ASHLEY!

Okay,

I am probably going to get hate posts pms and the lot from this but I really really really think we all need to refocus on why we come here....

Support and compassion for those of us pregnant, with children both young and old, and those of us struggling to try to get pregnant...    I really hope that those of you on both sides of these issues will realize that we should all be here for a comon reason, and please leave this issue alone, the post was removed by OH as it should be containing last names and such...\

Please if you want to yell scream and cuss at each other do it off the board, it really brings down tbose of us here for support and friendship...

(I will now take my flaming and such from both sides)

-Amanda
(here because I despirately want a child and need support getting thru this difficult time in my life....)

Dang, I thought I left this kinda sh*t behind with the R&R forum.    

On October 6, 2009 at 10:54 AM Pacific Time, Cathie N. wrote: Dang, I thought I left this kinda sh*t behind with the R&R forum.     I thought we left this crap behind in grade school!

Again I try to be here to help others and to help myself get thru a very difficutl TTC process.

You, me and the majoirty of people (I hope) that come to this and any "support"board.