Feeling Hopeless-Kind of long post

Ann,

I know you understand where I am coming from. For me, you and Shari where there when I first started actively TTC and had NO CLUE what I was doing. That doesn't mean I haven't tried in the past but I started really charting and etc so that I could have the six months charting when I went to my RE.

I don't believe anyone would not be getting pregnant because they have a bad attitude or bitter. This process can make you that way, the medication alone can drive you batty! You and Holly have been through so many miscarriages that it breaks my heart. I do know that we all have to keep trudging away because what else can we do? I am in the wonderful blanket called unexplained infertility. I have regular cycles, hubby has great sperm count/motility/etc. So, we just will keep trying to get that one hope that I can get pregnant and keep it!

I just know that all of us (those who are have children and those who are still TTC) have to offer support for all those TTC because it is part of trying to get pregnant. I know this is a support board for pregnancy but I also think there a lot of TTC's that need support too. And I understand the one time you posted about all the happy posts when you were going through another miscarriage. It is so hard to come here at times especially right after/during a miscarriage!

I SINCERLY apprecate you being there to listen, understand the venting that goes along with failed IUI's, miscarriages, and BLAH BLAH BLAH!

Know that I am here for you as well.

Traci

That post was not about not wanting people to be happy at all.  It was about using some discretion and restraint from posting multiple threads of 6 week belly pics.  Having been through repeated M/C, posting belly pics at 6 weeks is tempting fate.  Pregnant at 6 weeks does not always mean you are bring home a healthy baby.

And unfortunately (and I am sorry for this), many of those women who did it and were offended by what I wrote went on to find out the hard way part of what I was trying to get across in my message.

Just wanted to let you know that you deserve to be a Mom and will make a great one when the time comes. Wish I could tell you when LIke Madame Zurinski (or whatever it was lol)

I am here if you want to vent anytime.

Thanks, Liz!


Traci

Please don't feel bad about how you feel. They're your feelings. I'm so sorry this has been such a long hard road for you. I wonder sometimes also, why do people who don't want babies able to have them so easily, and ones who want them so bad, can't. I so hope for a sticky bean for you soon. I'm here anytime you need to vent. Maybe October will be our month. Good luck! Stefanie

Stefanie,

Thanks for being there. You were there over the last month when I was about fed up with fertility medication :)

I have my fingers crossed for both of us to get our BFP's soon!  Keep me posted girl!

Traci

Will do. I understand some of your frustration. Not completely. I'm just trying to figure out these last 2 losses. I had another one in 2005 as well. My issue isn't getting pregnant, it seems to be staying that way. Lets wait and see how it goes. I'm on CD 9. Should O next week sometime. I was thinking of buying some OPK's this time and seeing how that goes.

Well, I have already ovulated and in 2WW. So, not high hopes for this cycle since there was no IUI. But, I am excited because in October we are going to Vegas for our 10 year anniversary and I will be there during my expected O....so maybe we will have a great 10 year anniversary present with a BFP in November :)

Good luck! I have my fingers crossed!

Traci
 

I just wish you the best of luck. Big hugs and prayers for you!!

Thanks! I will take all the prayers I can get :)

Traci