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Kathy W.
on 9/22/09 3:43 am - Enfield, CT

Ok, I am starting to feel crappy. Sore boobs, nausia, cramps. Bout the right time too. Here is my question. Is it normal to be scared after a miscarriage? Last month I was scared to death I was preggers just cause it was too early. This month, I am just scared to do it all over again.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

emily B.
on 9/22/09 3:53 am - MO

It is very normal. I am 11 + weeks and I am still scared to death. I pray a lot and that helps me to relax.

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Mom to DS 9, DD 7, DS 4 and 1 angel.

Kathy W.
on 9/22/09 4:02 am - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

LOL I have a feeling God will be sick of me by the time I give birth. Glad to know it's normal. I think the worst will be until after I get past the 6 week mark.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

Just-Jenn
on 9/22/09 3:54 am - Midstate Region, PA

RNY on 03/01/06

Yes- it is very normal to scared. I would love to tell you it got easier as my pregnancy went on- but I would be lying. I did find it easier to relax once I hit about 15 weeks (stopped my progesterone, etc) with my second pregnancy after m/c. Not that every child isnt extrememely special- but my coping was / is telling myself I have my daughter who is happy and healthy. I am keeping my fingers crossed that the signs are right, and that you have a happy healthy pregnancy.

Proud Mom to Allen (20), Christa (14), Sophie (2), Stella (1). and an angel 5/07

Kathy W.
on 9/22/09 4:02 am - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

Thanks Jenn. It's nice to know someone understands.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

AnnS
on 9/22/09 4:39 am - Smyrna, GA

RNY on 10/25/04

I am so sorry you are having these feelings....I have not had a m/c but I was scared even being pregnant...mostly because I am AMA (40 yo)....I was pretty scared the entire pregnancy....it got TONS better about 14 weeks but then started thinking of everything else....my girlfriend said it is God preparing you to be a worry wart the rest of your life with having a child :)

BTW, I am sure God loves us to lean on Him so he will NOT be worn out :)

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Kathy W.
on 9/22/09 4:44 am - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

Yeah, I am up there in age too. Gonna be 38 when I have one. I have heard that too about the worrying.

I agree about Him loving us leaning on him but I still feel like I wear him out sometimes.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

Liz R.
on 9/22/09 4:40 am - Easton, PA

RNY on 01/30/07

if it isn't normal - I am not normal. I am 5+ weeks and scared to death! I won't relax some until I see that heartbeat on the 8th!

Kathy W.
on 9/22/09 4:43 am - Enfield, CT

RNY on 01/15/08 with

I won't stop then prolly cause we saw Munchkin's and still lost it. But it's nice to know that even if it's not normal, I'm not alone.

I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.

Baby 7-09

Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10

jojobear98
on 9/22/09 4:59 am - Gettysburg, PA

RNY on 09/02/04

It's perfectly normal. I lost my son at 19 weeks. It was devestating. So when I was pregnant with Jantzen, I didn't really breathe until about 20 weeks, and that's half the pregnancy!

So although it's best not to worry too much. It's normal and natural.

When life hands you lemons, ask for tequila & salt and give me a call!

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