Baby update and an OT ?

Ok so first I went into have my growth ultrasound today and from what I could get out of the closed lipped lady is that everything is fine.  He is still ALL boy, oh well at least I can brag about him being a stud one day...lol  The only thing that worries me is that when I was 9w0d I measured 8w5d.  Then when we had our 3D/4D ultrasound I was 15w1d and measured 15w4d.  Well today at 17w5d I measured a whopping 19w0d.  Also my uterus is already up past my bellybutton a little and he weighs 9oz.  Holy moly!!  I know they can be off but it seems he just keeps getting bigger and bigger.  Kris looked at me and said it's ok he will be big and strong, I told him well yeah why don't we use your uterus then??  Has anyone else had this happen?

So on to my OT.  There was a girl that I was very good friend in high school with and even became best friends with in college.  We were room mates and did everything together.  She started getting weird after I got married and then when I moved out to live with my husband she just got really distant.  I would call her and ask her was something wrong.  She always denied it, I begged her to tell me what was going wrong.  "nothing, I'm fine, just tired from work"  that's all I ever got.  So one night I called her when I was pregnant with DL crying over something stupid I had seen on TV, well her new best friend, a gay guy named Ross's mother answered the phone and told me that I needed to not ever call my friend again.  I was like WTF, I had no idea where the hell all of this was coming from.  This was a person I loved dearly.  So I said FU and hung up.  All of this happened 8-9 years ago and I've not spoken to her since.  Well a few months ago someone suggested I add her as a friend on FB, I didn't but I didn't Deny it either I just left it as a request.  Well today she sent me a message on FB asking could we be friends again and she was sorry about all the things she said about me.  Hell I didn't even know she was talking about me, I should have guessed but I didn't know for sure.  So My question would be what would you do?  It's been forever why reopen it?  Should I even respond or what?  I can honestly say she was the closest friend that I ever had that I lost, I just don't know what to do or even how to respond.  

Thank you so much for letting me ramble. 

I'm so jealous you know what you are having!!!!! AHHHHHHHH! 

Anyways... I'd want to know what the hell her problem was..... Why did that all happen. Maybe accept her.... ask her... and if her answer is B.S. Block her lol. IDK.... it could be very emotional to open that can of worms.... What do you want to do?

I was thinking about you last night remembering how much you wanted another boy, I told DH well maybe if KB has a girl we could swap...lol

I too had a best friend in HS and she was my college room mate - we were unseperable. She changed in college and we never spoke again until about 6 years ago - I got a Christmas card and a letter explaining her side of things. Our relationship isn't the same but we are friends again. I say "friend" her on FB and give her a chance to explain - if you don't like her answer move on.

Congrats on that growing boy too!

Do you miss her?  If you do, then I would at least hear what she has to say.  Women, especially young women, can be catty/moody/*****y/etc.  But we all mature a little each day, so if it's been that long since you had a problem with her, maybe she has outgrown that stage and is truly regretful about it.  You're relationship probably won't ever be the same, but if she is an important part of your history, I would give her another chance at being a part of  your life now...even if it is just as a casual FB friend.  The positive side that balances women's ability to be catty is that we are also capable of deep-seeded bonds.  Maybe your bond with this friend is enough to compensate for the past drama.  On the other hand, if you could take it or leave it and suspect that it might be inviting unnecessary drama into your life now, I would leave it.

...Just my two cents as someone who has gone through something similar with a college friend recently and has a couple of other "lost" friends out there that I would love to reconnect with....Natalie

My baby girl has been growing 2-3 weeks ahead for the last two months. Its been scary for me. My last son was 5 weeks early and weighed in at 7 3 so I am worried this time also. They told me not to worry but ultrasound and taping has measured me about the same so I just have a feeling this is a big baby again.
I would see what she has to say. People go through their own crazy stuff sometimes and then they get past it. I know my best friend and I have not been as close for years but we still talk to each other but we did go through a rough time where we did not talk for over 2 years. When we did we both realised things in life were changing both of us and it was hard to accept but we were different. We are much better now and knowing that she is still a great friend is important. I say try it and see how it works out. Not like she iis moving next door or anything. :)