EDIT WITH TRIP TO ER Should I be worried?

I had a m/c my first pregnancy- and this is what I have learned from the very heart breaking experience... all of our bodies are different, and there is nothing that I did or could have done to save the baby or to have hurt the baby.  I mourn the loss still..but each time I am pregnant I am thankful for each day I have with the baby...there is nothing I can do to change the outcome, nor can you.  You know the common sense things, take it easy, no intercourse (if you bleeding or have had unusual discharge)...My m/c happened and the only sign I had was brown discharge and a streak of blood- one evening...but I believe firmly the pregnancy was in trouble before that...it started with not seeing a sac, then the sac developed, then no fetal pole. the fetal pole, then slow heartbeat, then normal heartbeat....  It was a long experience to get to the end result of it not being a vitable pregnancy.  Those weeks were very hard.  I guess my point is- you know there could be a problem, but you also know lots of woman have little spotting (me included in my DD pregnancy last year and with this pregnancy) and everything is A okay.  So- like so many woman on here say- "today I am pregnant"..stay healthy, relax (your body), and follow up with your Dr's office as planned.  Hugs- I am sending positive thoughts.

a day or two in either direction makes a world of difference.  I had a u/s at 5  weeks 3 days with Kaida and we only saw a sac.  a week later there was a fetal pole.  this early on, the baby is developing so rapidly that a day or two literally is everything.

threatened miscarriage is usually just a term used to justify a u/s to insurance companies.  I was given the same term when I was spotting (bright red) with Jordan (who is 4.5 now!).  I began to cry and she assured me that it was just for insurance.

hugs. I bet everything is going to be fine!

your hcg has to been over 2000 for them to be able to see something... i was closer to 5.5 when they saw the sac a fetal pole.. and 7 and some days when they saw the heart beat

I will pray for you Karen!! Jus****ch for the blood and cramping like the Dr said. I didn't go to my first u/s til I was 6 weeks. Then I just saw a little sac. Just pray!!
Jessica

Thanks so much every one.  No more bleeding today.  I'm on "bedrest" til friday so I'm taking it easy.  I'm paranoid so I took a pregnancy test today and the test line showed up so fast, and about as bright as the control.  I'm trying to relax, but this sucks!!!! 

I will definately keep you in my prayers and thoughts. Keep us updated!!