scheduled c-sections

Well I sadly have to have a c-section regradless since I have already had two so they don't want me to go into labor as then it could turn into an emergency section and i don't want that so I am staying off my feet! But if we hold out until the 19th then I get my doc and my plan will be in place and I like to have plans!
She did say today with this being m y 3rd delivery that plan or not he could come when he so chooses to be prepared since my cervix is short and soft now! But with hubby being 4 hours away I am staying OFF my feet!