EDITED: Why do people ask questions when they have all the answers?

***First, there are some really wonderful women and moms on this forum - I truly thank and admire you.

Why do people ask questions when they have ALL the answers (correct or NOT)  They get furious when you have the audacity to finally, after holding your breath for 100 posts tell them the TRUTH. 

I know that this is the pregnancy forum and we should be "gentle" BUT come on people.  Some stuff just ain't right and some people are just downright selfish. Some simply have pure psychiatric issues.  These people should probably hold off on having children or stop adding to their ever growing families (babies, baby daddies).  Get your lives together!

Oh, God what a messed up world we live in.  It is amazing how one post just drove me off the wall .

How can you want a baby more than you want a healthy child.  How could you want to be a mother who by the decisions she makes induces poor health on herself - are you expecting your babies to take care of you?  How will you run with them in the park?  How will you care for them, and will you live to be there for them?

And can I say too (who gives a rats a$$ at this point as I think I'm done here - I'm NOT pregnant nor may I ever have any babies) Tattooing your children's names (all 10 of them) on your body is not honoring your children.  Taking care of them, giving them a good quality life, doing the best you can, SACRIFICING, etc.  That is honoring them, you, the world & the universe . . . that is honoring GOD.  We need to raise good caring, sharing individuals NOT  spiritually, mentally, emotionally , physically damaged individuals.  Get right with yourselves first or the cycle NEVER ends.

Ooookkkkk.....?  Don't know who said what or what I missed...I'll keep reading. 

Whatever it was someone said...Don't leave just bc you're not pg...God willing, the right man will come along and you will be some day...and you'll be a pretty knowledgeable mommy to be when the time comes.

HI JACK!!!!!!!!!

LOVE  your Avatar!

Thank you! 

I've gotten it to show up on two computers - one at home and my work internet - now if I can just get it to show up here so it's not making me nuts thinking it's not there...I'll not feel like a techno idiot. Don't know how I got it to show on the work one...it wasn't there...then later in the day, there it was.

It just showed up here too! It seems new avatars take a week to show up on my computer. Even when I clear cookies and cache and stuff. You are very beautiful!

Thank you.

The avatar showed up all the sudden the other night right in the middle of a post.  Strange...but at least it's there.

Hit F5.

Thanks Andrea....I'll keep that in mind next time I want to bang my head on the wall and change it again. It took me forever to get it sized right this time...so not something I'll do often!

Just wondering where the tattoo comment came from....  My husband and I recently got matching tattoos with our daughter's name and birth date for our Anniversary in July.  He also has a tattoo with his twins' names and birth dates, as well.  I think it does honor them, but it is not the only way I honor my daughter by any stretch of the imagination.  Does the fact that I have this tattoo automatically make me a bad parent and "not right with myself"?

Tanja