A little discouraged... ***update***

I absolutely get what you are saying...and I agree - but some people here were just rude.  I feel as if smoke is being blown up OUR asses when people tell those of us pregnant early "oh, it happens all the time and you'll be fine!  Just up your vitamins and calories...blah, blah..." but when a woman decided to actually get pregnant on purpose, people come out with the "oh no you WON'T be fine!  You'll cause brain damage!"  So, which is it - ya know what I mean?

I understand not trying to get pregnant while you are actively losing weight.  I totally get that!  And given the choice, I'd have waited a year...and I suggest that to anyone wanted to get pregnant early.  But to tell her she's going to cause brain damage and all sorts of issues - when she's not even losing weight - it's just contradictory.  

BTW, I love your new picture.  You look like 10 years younger!!

Sandy