Good news and Bad news......

Good news first, I'm starting my own home daycare! I just started the process of being ceritfied! I have wanted to do this for so long now! I LOVE kids!

Bad news......hubby came to me with a heavy heart and says he needs some time before we start TTC our baby:( He is taking it really hard. So until he is ready were not trying. I'm so broken hearted but I need to give him the time he needs.  So that's an update on me!

Jackie

YEAH for the daycare, hope it goes well.

Maybe with starting the daycare he'll give it a second thought and decide to TTC soon.  Good Luck


Missy


M/C  7/16/08  Ectopic 7/16/09

Woo hoo on starting your own daycare! Wished you live closer as I've been looking for a small, reputable provider.

I'm sorry the TTC is on hold, but kudos to hubby for being honest about it. Would he consider going to a support meeting with you? Or maybe chatting with your priest or minister? Even grief counseling together? There's a lot of support out there for women, but not much for men. Maybe being around others who have experienced loss might open the door toward healing for him.

Hugs,

He has agreed to meet with our Pastor. He trusts him and loves our Pastor. I just want to give him the time he needs. I know he will want to again, but he needs to heal first. It really was hard seeing me so upset and what I had to go through. I really have the most amazing loving husband!

I wish you were near also! I'm going to have a small group. 3 kids at first!

Jackie

Hi Jackie,

Good luck with your daycare business.  That is definitely a lucrative field and you get to do something that you love.  That's the perfect combo.

I can understand his pov... We took a break for awhile after the miscarriage and its what we needed to do. I believe it helped both of us! 

So Cool about the daycare.

I understand about the hubby. Dave was absolutely against getting pregnant again. I was too a little. Then, we decided to not decide for awhile. Then we decided that we'd let it happen if it did. Itty Bitty steps.

Give him his time. I think it's because the physical loss makes the emotional pain come on fast and strong for us women and the men don't have that extra push.

Take your pre-natals and use the time to make your body healthy and strong.

Hugs,
Angie

Good Luck with the daycare business...I used to do that and loved it.   I've actually pushed the idea around a few times and might decide to still do it yet one day.   Are you staying in the area and not moving?   Just curious cuz if I need something for Sadie in the future I'd keep you in mind.   She absolutely will not stay with anyone right now....well with grandma here in our house while I'm in the office working during the day but not if she knows I'm not here.   I've debated putting her somewhere even for 1 day a week or something to get her used to it but not sure yet. 

I'm in Superior! And yes were staying here! I would love to have her;)

Jackie

Great news about the Daycare. I think you'll love it! We were lucky enough to find a small home daycare wthin walking distance of our house and have been with her since my son was 3 mo.'s old - he just turned 5! He "graduates" next Friday and goes off to big boy school. I'll be heartbroken! One of the stipulations to us TTC #2 was that we reserve a space at this same Daycare (she can only have 6 at a time) and because she's such a great friend too she agreed! But anyway, good luck - sounds like great fun!

Cathie