some nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i was trying to stay out of this....but that pm to julie was pretty low

I also got a PM. Not going to post it as I deleted it right away.

But Sandy, this all began by you posting tons of questions. None of them made sense. People were *trying* to tell you to make calls, see an RE, etc. And you still kept posting about 2WW, miscarriage, not a miscarriage, etc.

All people were trying to do was get you to understand to stop, take a minute, and think about your cycles, issues, and problems. To do what would be most benefical for your and your body. Seek medical advice from an expert.

When you constantly contradict yourself, it's frustrating. Many people here have ligitimate questions, and take the advice they are given. Why ask for advice if you aren't open to suggestions?

The PM you sent Julie was down right dirty. Many women in the world, and many women on this board have to go through Fertility treatments. And to say that those women "buy" babies is a low down, hateful thing to say.

Good lord, posts from you are getting very old.  First you ask the same question a million different ways and only respond nicely to the women who say what you want to hear.  If someone questions you or says something you don't want to hear, you flip out by typing in all caps or calling them names. 

The women who answer you have had experience with infertility and are being helpful, but you only want to hear 'Sorry you are going through this' and 'I hope things get better'.  You don't want to hear that you have to be proactive in your quest for a baby, by doing research and talking to your doctors about your options.

I don't post here much anymore, so do what you will with this post.  I am sure you will call me a name of some sort.  Have a go at it, I don't mind.  :o)  They are just words and I assure you they won't bother me.

Please get your stories straight, and if you truly want to bring another child into this world get yourself together.  And people posting about you on Facebook was not done behind your back, because it was all already discussed here.  Get over yourself.

And use spell check before you submit your posts.

Have a nice day.

I will be honest ,because I am a big girl, I participated in FB conversation on the subject. Did I say anything mean or nasty, no, only the facts and my opinions, which you have stressed many times that we were ALL entitled to. I do not recall ever being mean or spiteful or saying anything mean to you. I think that people did question you because there was not a lot of clarity in your posts and in order to help you, which is what you were seeking, they needed an explanation. You then became resentful. I have always posted positive thoughts to you and vice versa but I must agree that PM was a low blow and was very cruel and hateful. MANY of us did fertility treatments of some sort to help us get pregnant and I can promise you it was not a walk in the park nor was it always easy on the pocketbook but you scrimp and save and do what you must in your quest. I pride myself on having pursued my education so I could get a good job as did my husband so we can have the things we want in life so if that means we want to use the money for fertilty treatments...great. The fact that Julie's husband is an attorney should have NOTHING to do with it and I NEVER recall seeing her post in a manner that she presented herself to be better than anyone else. In retrospect she seemed pretty humble about it all and seemed to be proud and fortunate of her blessings. When you posted about Rob or your husband or other issues we supported, same with the TTC battle. However to be bitter and mean is not very mature at all. I agree in that you seem to be combative and defensive when the replies suggest alternate courses of action. But is that not what you were looking for with the posts...feedback? I always take to heart advice and although I do not always agree with it I respect it. It is up to me to choose what to do with it. I think the nastiness should stop as we all SHOULD be grown ups, especially if we do or are planning on having children. That is my 2 cents. Off soapbox.

Oh, and Sandy.  About your comment that Julie paid for her babies. 

We all pay for our babies!  Dylan cost me a grand total of $1.36 (lucky us, this was a military hospital and we just had to pay for the meal that my husband ate).  But Cassidy was born in a civilian hospital and I am currently still making payments on her.  When it's all said and done, Cassidy will have cost us roughly $2,000.  And both my kids are worth every damn penny.

Oooh Stacy you got jimped 1.36 for a military meal?  You over paid by a 1.00...LOL sorry but I about peed on myself when I saw that, you crack me up, I miss you girl!

Yeah, it was called 'The New Daddy meal'  My husband got a crappy steak and overcooked baked potato.  LOL!  But it WAS a military hospital so he couldn't expect fine cuisine. 

Sandy,

I guess I got the best deal of all since I had IVF and got 3 for the price of one!

YOU HAVE GOT SOME DAMN NEVERE!!!!!!!!!  Do us all a favor and leave this board!!!  You have done nothing but **** people off here and give those who are TTC a bad name.  I said that I wouldn't post under your threads anymore but thi**** a nerve BIG TIME. 

You come here spewing your hate and then promptly apologize for it in your last sentence in your post....Grow a backbone and stand by what you say and stop apologizing.

UGGHHHHHHH......I hope I don't go into labor now being 30 weeks and so beyond pissed off right now. 

YOU SHOULD TAKE A PERSONAL INVENTORY OF YOURSELF SANDY!!!

Grow the hell up!

Carroll

Here is the difference Sandy. This is a public message board and when you come here, spelling the same words wrong (it's wipe not whipp), complaining about the same issues, asking the same questions, it is a waste of other people's time. People get frustrated but nobody wanted to hurt you. I think you are a very sweet person but I have discussed your posts with others because I see them as a huge cry for attention.

The bottom line is that all that was said to you, in words that you can understand, is YOU need to go to a doctor and get your life together. You are not going to get any answers to why your discharge is yellow from people on the internet. You are posting very personal information daily for what purpose?

You can get angry that everyone on here isn't being your "yes man", and you can attack people for how they concieved but those of us that have concieved are smart enough to see a doctor when we have issues and the kick in the butt that others gave you got you to finally go didn't it?

Seriously...you are cracking me up!