OPK?

1. Julie is completely right. You need to stop TTC until you have all your answers and a game plan.
2. You really need to see an RE
3. Your cycles are way off... that is not a good thing for your body or hormones.
4. You need to find out if you truly had a miscarriage.
5. Temping and Charting is a must. If you get 3+ hours of sleep at the same time every nite then you need to be able to chart. You have to take your temp every day at the same time.
6. If you do have all these things on your plate... your body is more than likely stressed out.
7. Call you insurance and get approval for an RE.
8. I know you don't want to hear any of this... but its the truth and we are being honest. TTC needs to stop till you can figure out YOURSELF.

1. Julie is right and that is why im here is for the great support. We are both using protection when having intercourse so we have stopped as of now TTC.
2.I will be seeing a RE
3.The thing about my cycles is weird that you all say they are way off cause i have my cycle EVERy 28-30 days.Couldnt that be much worse or am i wrong?
4.I do not believe i truley m/c as i took another HPT two days after i started bleeding and it was a obvious negative.
5.Once again this is why i come here for support,my understanding as that you had to have a full nights sleep for temping so that is my own ignorance for not reading more up on it.
6.I do have a lot on my plate and this is why i have a appt thursday.
7.My PCP has a lady in here office that does JUST THAT,she does all the referrals for other doctors such as a RE.
8.I know you are all being honest and I do appreciate it more than any of you know.

I'm in the TWW too!  baby dust!

Thank you for your kind words!

Sandy,

I do not post much to you or even on this board as I am not TTC, but I have made some friends on this board and I enjoy coming here..plus I have 8 children and I think at times I do have information that is helpful for expectant or new mothers.  

The biggest thing I have noticed about your posts is that you infuriate people as you do not want to take their advice.  You also do change your stories about what is going on.  In one post you say you went to the ER..in the next post you said you took at HPT that was negative.  

I do not post do you because I get the impression you really are confused and do not know what you are talking about...or just do not want to listen.  From an outside looking in..it seems that if someone tells you the sky is blue...you argue and say it is a shade of blue grey.  

I wish you could get things figured out...and hope in the future you are able to get healthy and conceive the baby you so desire.

Laura 

Laura,
 
I appreciate you replying but I do not appreciate the flaiming. That was a LOW comment about the sky. That is soooooooo NOT true at all.
 I did take many HPT and I DID go to the ER. I actually just picked up my medical records from the hospital for those test results and i would share them but i would get flaimed for that as well.

 You are VERY right I am confused at times. I never had to go through all of this with my two children that i do have,we just planned it and we got pregnant within a year or so and had the babies.Now im lost cause this is all new to me.

I am not trying to mislead anyone here,im really just trying to get the support that I give to all of you.


Sandy

Sandy, that is the thing.  This SHOULD NOT BE all new to you by now.  Yet, you keep asking the same questions over and over.  When you ask advice, people give it to you...and yet you don't use it ****il now perhaps).  Your M/C was in Jan of 07, right?  So, it has been two and a half years now of trying to figure it out.  People tell you to temp, go to another doctor, go to an RE.  Any one of these things would have gotten you half way to understanding whatever reproductive issues you may/may not be having.  How can anyone on here help you straighten it out if you can't keep it straight yourself? 

I truly believe the women on this board wanted to support you and have for some time.  It just seems that sometimes you don't want to be helped.

This is not new to me at all. I am sorry that I asked the same question over and over,that has truly always been a flaw for me. I asked the same question 100 different ways until i understand what someone is trying to tell me. This truly is NOT something i do to aggravate or **** anyone off at all.This truly is a flaw of mine and i do not know how to fix it. I am not going to sit here and tell stories,this truly breaks my heart that I feel like a pure idiot cause i have this flaw.
 
I know one thing if people want me to go away cause of my flaws i will be sure to do that.
I have been a member of this board since 06 and have tried to be of great support as well as recieving it.

My M/C was Jan 07 yes,for some reason i thought it was 06 but we got married in 06 and got pregnant in 07. I do need to start keeping a journal that is great advice.That way I can get my dates correct for everyone including myself,friends,family(that support me),PCP,OB and RE.

I am also not going to lie,i just recently last year got insurance that would pay a percentage for me too see a RE.Before this I was unable to afford it.Now I have MUCH better insurance and I have a income that I am able to save for anything extra that may need to be done.