OPK?

Hi Sandy,

I know the feeling of TTC #2+ and how frustrating it is.  I also know the heartache of having multiple miscarriages.  I can't follow where you are in the cycles and it seems like you've had either really short cycles and strange ovulation times, or times with no ovulation?  In any case, it is important to figure out and conquer the challenge of irregular cycles (and possible miscarriage) before trying to conceive.  If there is an underlying issue that can be easily treated, do it now, BEFORE conceiving a baby and having an issue during pregnancy.  Find a good reproductive endocrinologist (RE) and start charting/temping.  Have all the routine testing done to rule out any problems.  Then come up with a plan that your RE can support.  Yes, it may take some time, but it's better than all this mess that you're dealing with right now.

Good luck!

Hello sweets

I do want to say thank you for taking the time to respond. My plan of action is just as you mentioned,i am going to get my cycle and everything health wise under control and go from there.

Sandy,

If you say that your plan of action is getting your health under control and going from there then why are you in the 2WW?? 

All your posts just don't add up.... You claimed to have bleed on the 13th & 19th which was at the latest 9 days ago.  You wouldn't even be O'ing at this point so how could you possibly be now all of a sudden in a 2WW.

Please realize that we are a smart bunch of women here who have been thru hell and high water to get pregnant.  We read into everything to give the best advise possible so it is not easy to pull the wool over our eyes.

Get your self the medical attention that you need and then come back here when all your ducks are in a row.  We can help  you better at that point.

FOR ONE I NEVER CLAIMED TO BLEED ON THE 13TH AND 19TH.I SAID I GOT A FAINT POSITIVE ON THE 9TH AND THEN STARTED BLEEDING THE 12TH IF YOU READ CORRECTLY.
WHAT WOOL AM I TRYING TO PULL OVER?I HAVE NOT A DAMN THING TO HIDE FROM ANY OF YOU,I THOUGHT I HAD SUPPORT BUT FOUND OUT WRONG TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SO WHAT YOU ARE TELLING ME IS DONT COME BACK TIL I GET MY DUCKS IN A ROW,THAT IS PRETTY PATHETIC.THE LAST I KNEW NONE OF YOU LADIES WERE THE GODESS OF THIS BOARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sandy,

This was your post:


Well as many of you know from my past threads from lastweek. On july 9th,we found out we were pregnant. On july 13th, I started bleeding.well today is the 19th and it is so weird. The first two days were pretty steady dark red blood and the since then its just been like yellow discharge when i whipe. I am going to contact my OB in the morning and see about making a appt. too see what is going on.Too see if i  may beed a D&C. The odd thing is I did cramp a little but not near as bad as the other m/c's.

Thanks for taking the time to read the update and I will update as soon as I know what the OB is going to do.


And yes I CAN READ but perhaps all you do is make **** up!  And no I am not the Godess of the board I am the ***** of the Board.  Don't come her spewing your details if they are not accurate.
I know that myself and a lot of others are done with you. 

I DO NOT GIVE A LIVING **** WHO IS DONE WITH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO U WANT ME TO DO ABOUT IT?SIT AND CRY?NOT HAPPENING!!!
YOU ARE PRETTY LAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF YOU READ MY POST AGAIN YOU WILL SEE THAT I BLEED FOR TWO DAYS STARTING THE LATE NIGHT OF THE 12TH WHICH IM TOLD TO CONSIDER THE 13TH.FROM THEN ON IT WAS JUST YELLOW DISCHARGE?AM I WRONG ?OH I KNOW I AM AS YOU ARE THE GODESS OF THE BOARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First of all, stop screaming.  You are an adult and a female.  Act like an adult and a lady.  Carroll isn't screaming at you. 

Second of all, the problem with that post is that when you posted it on the 19th.  On the 19th you already knew you were not pregnant because by your own recent admission, your husband took you to the hospital on the 13th. 

So why you go on and on about being pregnant and possibly needing a D & C is ridiculous.  You already knew that you were not pregnant. 

Do you see why we are all getting upset and pissed off here?   You are talking out of both sides of your mouth.   You are making a mountain out of a molehill here.   It doesn't matter at this point when you bled, how many days you bled, the type of discharge you are having, the 15 million positive OPK's you keep having or don't keep having.......those are all moot points.  

None of us think you have any business having a baby right now.   Clearly there are other non TTC issues going on here.   So without screaming or getting nasty or calling someone a goddess, etc.,  just listen to what we are telling you.    

Get professional help.    

I talked of a D&C because the quack I DID have had mentioned if i was indeed pregnant and didnt m/c on my own i would need one. I have since changed doctors because I am sick of the run around with the doctor i did have.
 I do not have any business of having a baby right now,but who are you ladies to tell me that? There are many ladies that get pregnant and have much worse going on than I. On that note,we are DONE TT****il my PCP gets me referred over to a RE and gets everything under control and do what needs to be done so that I can have a happy,healthy and safe 9 months.

Again, your Dr would have had nothing to do with your diagnosis because you already went to the hospital and they told you, you were not pregnant.  

It doesn't matter, any of it.   My issues are not whether you were pregnant or not pregnant.   I have already stated what my issue with this entire scenario is.  

And if you bring your personal TTC situation here, I'm going to tell you what I think about it.  Especially when you ask for advice.  Even if it's not what you want to hear, I'm going to tell you like it is.  Trust me on this point, I would have no problem telling others this board when they have no business TTC.  

By you bringing your want for advice, it gives us the right to tell you our opinions on the matter. 

Hon...

You are not THE ***** of the board.  You are ONE of the *****es on the board.  Sheesh!