OPK?

I do want to thank you and do not belive you are flaming me at all. I want to explain one thing to you ok? I did have bloodwork done yesterday and I will get the results on thursday from my new PCP. On thursday we will be discussing a plan of action and the first plan is to get me into a OB that wants to take the time to care.The last one was a lost cause and yes I do feel bad for saying so but how in the h$(( can they ignore 25 calls from me and not even take 5 minutes from their day to JUST RETURN my call!

 I do also agree that I need to get my health issues under control before trying to have a child. To be totally honest we did bd on the days we were supposed to and if we do get a BFP,we will deal with that when it comes at us.I do think we need to start taking precautions until im all tooken care of.

That's all fine and dandy, but I don't think you are hearing me or getting it. 

1.  Appropriate BD days do not exist for you at this moment.  If in fact you had a miscarriage last cycle, you are not having a normal cycle at this moment in time.  It's not possible. 

2.  You are having unprotected sex therefore you are not taking precautions.  You want to get pregnant, you don't want to avoid it.  Let's not beat around the bush here.  I don't think you have any intentions of stopping TTC at this moment.  Hear what I am saying.  YOU NEED TO STOP TTC RIGHT NOW!

Julie

I am hearing you out, please believe me. That is why I came here for advice and we are going to be using protection(Both of us),if we do indeed have intercourse.

THIS IS WHY I CAME HERE!!!!!!!!!!!I came here for advice and we are taking it all in as you ladies know much better that i. I have NEVER had any problem TT****il the last 3 years and now it has been a fight.
 I go see my PCP tomorrow at 5 pm and we will be discusing all of this and I am going to ask her to refer me to a RE and if she dont have to refer well i will be on the phone myself finding one.

Sandy,

I have to totally agree with what Julie is saying....

I mean correct me if I am wrong but you say that you got a faint + preggo test then started to MC and that was about a week ago.  Now suddenly you are in a 2WW....NOT POSSIBLE!

I am not even sure why you would again test to see if you are Oing a week after this MC without ANY doctor supervision.

Next, you say your doctor's office needs a referral to just call you back...again NOT POSSIBLE!!

This is going to be harsh but I feel that you are giving us all the run around here.  Perhaps some of your information is less than accurate.  I feel like you are fishing here and just trying to get people to say things that you want to hear.  As far as I am concerned that will not happen from me.  I will tell it like it is and unfortunately this TTC process sucks and by you basically taking matters into your own hands and that doesn't give women on this board the right info about TTC.

So for your sake I would speak to a doctor and get you medical history straightened out before TTC again.  I wish you all the best and hopefully everything works out for you but for you.

DITTO!

OK first of all, I NEVER EVER said that my doctors office needs a referral to call me back EVER!!!!!!!!! I have worked in doctors office and know that is NOT true. They were NOT returning my calls is what i had said.This has resulted in me calling my insurance company because i was supposed to wait until august to be able to change doctors but i explained the situation and was able to change. I am sorry I do not mean to come off like that but you came off pretty rotten to me.
 I had bloodwork ran yesterday and i get the results thursday at 5 pm.
 I do know because my husband took me to the ER that indeed it was NOT a pregnacy and that was on the 13th of this month so it was not a week ago it was two and so it does make sense i am in my TWW now.
I am not here for self pitty,im here because i THOUGHT it was a support forum,but maybe i was wrong.I am sorry if you think im trying to get you all to give me the answers i want to hear,this is NOT true at all. I want honesty,im a VERY honest person even if it hurts.Lieing to me is a sin and I refuse to do so.I am not perfect as known of us are but I gotta say that you wee very harsh in this reply and if im a bother to you all, I can and will just go away.I have tried to be support to all of you as well for the past well lets see,3 years now and this is what i get? I feel like you are speaking to me as if im a child,im a grown woman as I thought all of us are.
 I really do not like conflict at all, I just am pretty hurt with some of the words you had to say to me.


Sandy

Wait a minute, all along you have been adamant that you had a miscarriage.  You have even updated your signature line to 5 miscarriages to include the most recent one. 

It the beginning of this post you elude to a miscarriage again, but just now you state that your husband took you to the ER and you did not have a miscarriage. 

So which is it?  You know for a fact that you were never pregnant or you still think you had a miscarriage?  

I am not trying to give mix signals at all and i should have made myself clear and im sorry.
 I did the 5 m/c because i have had 4 m/c and a tubal pregnacy(eptopic).That one added was not for what i thought was this past episodes.
 I need to make myself clearer as i feel when i make a mistake,im treated as if im one of someone children being talked to on here.

Geesh......you are nuts! Never making sense. Running in circles trying to clarify the million things you post. And none of it jives. Sorry... but that is just the facts. Not being mean, just being honest.

You done pissed me off with that. I am not nuts.I am just VERY confused and thought i could get support here,but i found out wrong.