EDIT--BD'ing positions! Need some help

My husband is a bigger guy too.... and especially when I was 9 months pregnant him being on top (my fav position) wasn't possible.

What we have found (and the position we were in when we conceived) was for him to be standing on the floor at the side of the bed and my legs on his shoulders....  does that count as "man on top" ?   It's sorta the same posotion as "doggie style" but flipped..... I would guess the "swimmers" stay in better that way and that's the point?   Plus his size isn't squishing me in this position. 

We weren't TTC, but it worked none-the-less . 

Good Luck!!

Cindy

you know I never thought of that!  I think that may be what we need to do.  Thank Cindy!!

We tried for 8 months to get preggers and in april we put a pillow under me and I got pregnant that month. I have heard the pillow works well! We are trying that again!

Jackie

As Dawn said, don't go until AFTER he does.  If you can go first on top, then roll over and let him finish on top with your legs in the air.  That's usually what we do.  And we WEREN'T trying any of those times!  When you climax, your cervix "spazzes" out and starts contracting into his pool of "stuff".  So if you wait until he goes first, then there's something for your cervix to dip into!  If that makes sense...finishing at the same time works too!

Have fun!
Sandy

Ok I had to laugh.  My husband is 6'6" and, well, um, very proportionate? LOL.  I have a tough time being on top b/c of his size - so we go for the regular ole boring stuff most of the time.

We only can have sex on weekends so I can tell you when I got preggers too. LOL The weekends only is how I know what position we were in. I was on top both days. I know I did get off as soon as possible and was on my back to give the boys a chance to swim.