Thinking of Those Who Have Loved and Lost (m/c mentioned)
Jo,
Thank you for posting this. For me, I have emailed people good luck, congrats, and not really posted much about my feelings. I have read posts from others having/going through a miscarriage and post my sympathy and heartful sadness for them. I guess I just don't want to post what I feel. Not much will change the situation. Plus, I am not a Debbie Downer type of person. I don't want to dwell on the bad. I want to think about the good to come.
It is frustrating to come on and see all the other people who are blissful. But it gives me hope that it can happen for me; however, at the same time it sometimes makes me sad. I wanted a baby. I want to be a Mom.
Additionally, everyone's situation is different. For those like me that don't have any children, it is hard. Not to say those that already have a child that their pain is any less but they get to enjoy their child and have the experience of being a Mom. I want to experience that for myself.
I know that I will be a Mom one day. I pray that God helps me down that path. I know I have done all the right things to prepare to be a Mom and it is hard not to questino the "Why not me". It is also not proper to question "why this person, or that person, and not me". So, for me I just pick it up and move on. For I know that to be a Mom I have to go through all of this.
Thanks Jo, for just being you!
Traci
Thank you for posting this. For me, I have emailed people good luck, congrats, and not really posted much about my feelings. I have read posts from others having/going through a miscarriage and post my sympathy and heartful sadness for them. I guess I just don't want to post what I feel. Not much will change the situation. Plus, I am not a Debbie Downer type of person. I don't want to dwell on the bad. I want to think about the good to come.
It is frustrating to come on and see all the other people who are blissful. But it gives me hope that it can happen for me; however, at the same time it sometimes makes me sad. I wanted a baby. I want to be a Mom.
Additionally, everyone's situation is different. For those like me that don't have any children, it is hard. Not to say those that already have a child that their pain is any less but they get to enjoy their child and have the experience of being a Mom. I want to experience that for myself.
I know that I will be a Mom one day. I pray that God helps me down that path. I know I have done all the right things to prepare to be a Mom and it is hard not to questino the "Why not me". It is also not proper to question "why this person, or that person, and not me". So, for me I just pick it up and move on. For I know that to be a Mom I have to go through all of this.
Thanks Jo, for just being you!
Traci
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