Please help...mightve made a big oopsie

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on 7/3/09 5:47 am, edited 7/3/09 6:35 am - Selinsgrove, PA
I am 2 months post-op and think me and my fiance might have made a oopsie. Without getting into details....there were 2 oopsies on Monday and one on Wednesday. I know what was I thinking to make it happen more than once, I feel like so dumb. I am taking bc but lately with my scedule with vitamins and eating and water I have not been as regular and on scedule. Add that to the fact that I just got off my period on Saturday so a friend of mine who is a nurse said that my odds are high as at least once was during ovulation.

ETA: according to online charting methods. Wednesday I was at the peak of ovulation. So great.

What do you guys think my chances are at being pregnant? And if I am, how bad and dangerous is it honestly? I know my odds aren't good and I am just terrified. Is this going to stop my weight loss completely, I have lost about 30lbs already and still want about 60 gone.

In a world full of cheerios be a fruit loop!   
Lilypie - (HynR)
 
                     260lbs.......148lbs........165lbs
                       Start........Current.......Goal 
                                Goal met 11/23

 
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NMaMi

on 7/3/09 5:52 am - Cohoes, NY
Today is Friday so I would scoot your skinny booty to planned parenthood and pick up something called EC "Plan B" Aka emergency contraception which you can take up to 72hrs after unprotected sex. So this would help for Wed's Oopsie... I would do that ASAP. In regards to Mondays... Honestly you will find out soon enough... Good luck with everything
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  Height 5'1--HW 266*/CW-200*/GW-125*

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on 7/3/09 6:04 am - Selinsgrove, PA
I thought about this on Wednesday (super late) but because of work and other things that I had to do I could not get to planned parenthood before they closed. Then on Thursday I knew I would have the same problem so I called my PCP which is open later and asked if there is anything she could do, like if she had any available or could do something else. No can do, she said with my new system I need to take it within the first 24-36 hours for it to work and even if she gave it to me for Wednesdays opps it wouldnt cover Mondays and if that one implanted it could cause trouble to the future fetus. So now I just have to sit, wait, and hope not.

In a world full of cheerios be a fruit loop!   
Lilypie - (HynR)
 
                     260lbs.......148lbs........165lbs
                       Start........Current.......Goal 
                                Goal met 11/23

 
XcLuSiVePuErToRiCa
NMaMi

on 7/3/09 6:28 am - Cohoes, NY
Well I wish you good luck with everything!! Keep us posted!
                ♥ ~Alexandra RNY Completed 8/19/09~ ♥
  Height 5'1--HW 266*/CW-200*/GW-125*

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on 7/3/09 6:33 am - Selinsgrove, PA
Thanks and I will. I'm just keeping in mind that if I am it is not the end of the world.

In a world full of cheerios be a fruit loop!   
Lilypie - (HynR)
 
                     260lbs.......148lbs........165lbs
                       Start........Current.......Goal 
                                Goal met 11/23

 
Sara S.
on 7/3/09 6:52 am
No Offense but 3 times is not an oops... Plain and Simple take a test and find out.
  Sara

Mom to Haleigh born 04/14/10 and Dylan 05/15/12
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on 7/3/09 7:45 am - Selinsgrove, PA
Honestly they were, the condom broke once on Monday so we tried a different brand and low and behold my luck cause another one broke on Wednesday. The first time was just not paying attention and getting too caught up in the moment.

I can't take a test yet because you have to wait at least 14-19 days after ovulation for an accurate reading. I have to wait 2 weeks. 

In a world full of cheerios be a fruit loop!   
Lilypie - (HynR)
 
                     260lbs.......148lbs........165lbs
                       Start........Current.......Goal 
                                Goal met 11/23

 
amyc
on 7/3/09 8:19 am, edited 7/3/09 8:19 am - Jacksboro, TN
Revision on 02/28/12
If you are not pregnant I would strongly suggest finding a new form of bc.  The IUD may be a good choice if you are in a serious relationship.  You may want to think about the nuva ring or even depo shot.    Condoms do break, so you need to have another form of relliabe bc.
If you are pregnant, you won't be the first or the last to get pregnant so early after surgery.  Most continue to lose weight the entire pregnancy.  You will probably be monitored closer by your OB.  The baby may weigh a little less than normal, but from what I've seen from this board all have been born healthy. Take your vitamins on schedule just in case you are. 
Let us know what the results are in a couple of weeks.
Good luck,
Amy
       
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on 7/3/09 9:01 am - Selinsgrove, PA
Thank you for the reassurance. I am actually looking into the mirena IUD. My PCP said if I am not pregnant she can order it but the ob in the office has to insert it. I would have done it sooner but I was afraid of it, I sometimes have trouble with tampons. But this is my wake up call, if I am not pregnant now I will be making sure I am not until I am ready.  

In a world full of cheerios be a fruit loop!   
Lilypie - (HynR)
 
                     260lbs.......148lbs........165lbs
                       Start........Current.......Goal 
                                Goal met 11/23

 
Sheri S.
on 7/3/09 9:47 am - Effingham, IL
I dont have much advice for you, but wanted to let you know that I am in the same boat with you. I made my oopsie earlier this month and waiting to find out if Im preggo or not. Although I am almost two years out from surgery, so not quite the same boat. But anywho, I was extremely sleep deprived and missed taking my BC for almost 4 days....during of which I had sex with the hubby. OOPPS! I also tried to get Plan B but the pharmacist refused to give it to me because she said it was "too late to do anything" My last day of my pack is tomorow, so I should know by the end of next week. Lets keep our fingers crossed!

  260 Highest recorded weight/223 Surgery day/ Personal goal 145/ Current 139...6 pounds below goal weight 
 

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