Update on my hcg ??? from yesterday(upated again)

Well, I'm not pregnant. AF showed up fierce and ugly. I'm kinda relieved and I'm kinda not. I did call the OB and she said that my hcg was at 27 the day of my d&c. It must've been a chemical pregnancy.  In the Creator's hands. ...

DH and I have been bouncing all over the place about whether or not to try again. Some days we want to, other days we don't. Afraid, I guess. I just don't feel like we are complete as a family. He told me he's not opposed to another baby---just that my pregnancies are so hard. It worries him.

Ugh---I don't know.

In the meantime, the cramps are AWEFUL!!!!!!!

Hugs,
Angie

Update: Thought AF was coming with a vengeance....but she stopped(if thatwas her at all)
Jiminy Cricket- I'm so mad at my body I could scream!!!!

I want to try again right away after my first cycle...hubby is so devastated he wants to not even talk about it at all. Ill give him time.

Jackie

Mixed feelings - glad you have an answer but sorry AF showed up.

Dr told me we could try after 1 normal cycle - I haven't discussed with hubby but I think I feel that I have to get "right back in the saddle" with this or I will just worry.

*hugs*

Liz

Well, I'm glad at least you know either way. After DH saw me suffering with HG and all the hospitalizations, I didn't think he would ever want to be intimate again!

I'm sure your hubby will feel like trying again in a bit of time.

Hang in there and I hope the hag let's up soon!

Hugs,

Sorry AF showed up, but hopefully it will happen so if thats what you want.

Like Jackie and Liz said I am just waiting for AF to show up so we know we can start trying again.  Yay for baby making practice.

I know what you mean by not being complete as a family.

I know what you mean re your DH worrying about you...I'm going through that right now while TTC.  Since I'm on all sorts of hormones - estrogen, progesterone, plus clomid the last two months...if the IUI didn't work this month I'll try something else...but my DH is worrying what all those hormones are doing to me.  He tells me he's happy with the son we have and he'd rather have me around than another baby.

Whatever you decide, I hope you're at peace with the decision...and that if you do try again, it's as sticky as can be.

Thanks ladies. AF is indeed here. I'm happy that my body is going haywire. Now I can get a handle on my cyles-----no matter what DH and I decide.

Hugs,
Angie