I just want to scream..........

I like different names, my husband, not so much... that being said, I really really wanted to name our little boy kingston, he's said NO WAY! As much as I wanted it (and still do) I know he can't stand it and that means something to me. Now if he ever comes around and says he'd be ok with it, I'll jump on it in a second the next time we have a boy, but for now, it's a no go. I think it's important that it's something you BOTH can agree on, this is a name you'll be using for the rest of life and you want it to be surrounding with positive feelings. I think your right for what that matters!

Ok, Petra isn't the worst name ever, but I would not agree to it in a million years!  Maybe, maybe as a middle name.....but only to appease him!!!!!  I hope he changes his mind!!  YES you should both agree about both names.  I totally agree.