OMG - The pain is unreal!!! (LONG & TMI)
Oh my gosh Kelly - Hugs to you!
Please, please, please know you did not cause this! I had a miscarriage under the same cir****tances. My baby measured at about 7 1/2 weeks and I should have been11. I chose to miscarry naturally and lost it at 12 1/2 weeks. It was not fun, however I hope I can ease your mind by telling you I never saw a fetus. That would have just sent me over the edge.
I hope you are able to heal both emotionally and physically soon - but all in good time. Hang in there - several of us have been there, as I know you have before. If you need to talk we are all here.
((((HUGS)))) Dawn
Please, please, please know you did not cause this! I had a miscarriage under the same cir****tances. My baby measured at about 7 1/2 weeks and I should have been11. I chose to miscarry naturally and lost it at 12 1/2 weeks. It was not fun, however I hope I can ease your mind by telling you I never saw a fetus. That would have just sent me over the edge.
I hope you are able to heal both emotionally and physically soon - but all in good time. Hang in there - several of us have been there, as I know you have before. If you need to talk we are all here.
((((HUGS)))) Dawn
Dawn Momma to:
Bailey Rachelle Renee 8/21/07, Baby #2 in heaven 4/12/08,
Isabella Ava Rose 6 18/09, Carter Kenneth 7/14/10
Bailey Rachelle Renee 8/21/07, Baby #2 in heaven 4/12/08,
Isabella Ava Rose 6 18/09, Carter Kenneth 7/14/10
I can't believe they gave you the Cytotec and NO pain meds! Call your docs office RIGHT NOW and make them call something in for you, you should not have to suffer this physical pain and emotional trama at the same time. I am MAD at the nurse for you!
I have gone the Cytotec route and it is not fun, but once it is over it's over, and aside for a little bleeding you should be ok in just a day or two (physically that is). I am so sorry that you have to go though this, and I hope they can get you some phsycial relife soon.
Do NOT blame yourself, you did nothing wrong, unfortunatly this just happens. It isn't fair, but it does. If you need anything please feel free to drop me a line.
I have gone the Cytotec route and it is not fun, but once it is over it's over, and aside for a little bleeding you should be ok in just a day or two (physically that is). I am so sorry that you have to go though this, and I hope they can get you some phsycial relife soon.
Do NOT blame yourself, you did nothing wrong, unfortunatly this just happens. It isn't fair, but it does. If you need anything please feel free to drop me a line.
OHHHH KELLY!!!!!!! My heart is truly breaking right now. I know nothing I or anyone can say will make the pain go away but, please know I'm truly here for you if you need me. May the Lord lift you up in you're time of sorrow and help you to get through this horrible experience. I PM'd you last night as I was so worried about you. Honestly, I'm almost speechless as I've never would have thought this would happen to you. We were due date buddies :(
I so glad that you're DH is being supportive. I've worried so much about how things were playing out with you and him. I hope he continues to be the support system that you and the boys need.
If you choose to shy from the board I will totally understand. Please keep in touch or PM from time to time. If you ever just wanna talk you know where to find me honey!
Ya know I love ya girl and sending big hugs to you!
Ash :)
I so glad that you're DH is being supportive. I've worried so much about how things were playing out with you and him. I hope he continues to be the support system that you and the boys need.
If you choose to shy from the board I will totally understand. Please keep in touch or PM from time to time. If you ever just wanna talk you know where to find me honey!
Ya know I love ya girl and sending big hugs to you!
Ash :)