OMG - The pain is unreal!!! (LONG & TMI)
Kelly - I am so very sorry for the physical and mental pain you are going through.
You and your hubby are in my thoughts and prayers and NEVER feel like you did anything to cause this!
Take Care and keep us updated.
Cindy
Surgery on 4/25/05 , Dr. Alverdy in Chicago. God Bless the DS !!!
Highest Weight = 412lbs, Surgery Weight = 359lbs, Current Weight = 155lbs (5'7" tall)http://www.picturetrail.com/gid8138761
I was hoping you wouldn't have to go through all of this. I am so sorry that you do, especially since you fought so hard emotionally for this baby.
With my last miscarriage I was around 12 weeks we think and my body did it on it's own. That said, it was extremely painful. I had contractions and everything and I "felt" the baby come out, even as small as it was. I saw it and held it. I wanted to see it. I know it may sound gross or morbid, but it helped finalize everything. I was holding on to this tiny shred of hope that it wasn't really happening.
All of that in mind, I think like labor, since you are basically inducing it, the pains will be worse. It's horrible but I think that's the way it works with all of That.
You will probably be able to see the baby. If you don't want to see it... my only real advice is don't look at what's coming out of you.... at all. But in my personal experience, it helps to put an end to things, all most like closing a casket lid.
Again, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. It is so horrible. I am so sorry and I will be praying for strength and comfort for you today.
Victoria
With my last miscarriage I was around 12 weeks we think and my body did it on it's own. That said, it was extremely painful. I had contractions and everything and I "felt" the baby come out, even as small as it was. I saw it and held it. I wanted to see it. I know it may sound gross or morbid, but it helped finalize everything. I was holding on to this tiny shred of hope that it wasn't really happening.
All of that in mind, I think like labor, since you are basically inducing it, the pains will be worse. It's horrible but I think that's the way it works with all of That.
You will probably be able to see the baby. If you don't want to see it... my only real advice is don't look at what's coming out of you.... at all. But in my personal experience, it helps to put an end to things, all most like closing a casket lid.
Again, I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. It is so horrible. I am so sorry and I will be praying for strength and comfort for you today.
Victoria
~Victoria
Kelly, that sounds just awful and I'm so sorry! The Dr can't give you anything for the pain? I'm hoping today brings you some relief, but in the meantime, I'm sending you lots of hugs!
Jo
DS:9 yrs old / DD:5 yrs old / DS: 1 yr old
. Take care of yourself...
HUGS
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on 5/22/09 12:30 am - San Antonio, TX
on 5/22/09 12:30 am - San Antonio, TX
Kelly,
I don't have anything helpful to say but I am terribly sorry, I hope its over quickly, and I wish you and your husband the best as you heal.
I don't have anything helpful to say but I am terribly sorry, I hope its over quickly, and I wish you and your husband the best as you heal.
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