Steaming!!!!
Ladies,
I was going to ignore the things that have gone on here for the last few days but of course my pregnancy hormones have gotten the best of me and I am steaming at this point. So go ahead and flame all you want.....
First and foremost this board is entitled "Pregnancy after WLS surgery" to me that equates to everything that comes along with it.....the good the bad and the ugly and believe me those three have shown there faces here!!! I don't have if you have been preggo, TTC, or just getting knowledge here....EVERYONE IS WELCOME!!!! Regardless of their fertility status.
There are women on this board who out of the goodness of there heart supply us will valuable advice, support, experiences, constructive criticism, etc. on a daily basis.
There are others on this board who are just basically **** stirrers!!!! You have women here that no matter how many times they post the same question 300 different ways no answer is what they want to hear. You have others that hardly post and just read everyday and gain tons of knowledge from that. You have others how post occasionally but read everyday. And then you have others who are so dedicated to this board that it amazes me.
I am not sure why but when one or two people voice how THEY feel they are attacked. I know if you don't want to read the post then skip it. I agree but to those who post daily to numerous posts I am sure that is easier said than done. I have learned about not only TTC here but how to tomato sauce stains off of bottles, which strollers to get if you are having multiples, how to comfort those who have had a loss, how to celebrate with those who have given birth, how to tolerate teenagers at their worst times, etc. Its not just about Pregnancy after WLS. Its about everything that has to do with being a family. AND GUESS WHAT LADIES....alot of us are not doing our part to keep this family going.
I am sure Ann gets it.....people are pissed. And I am sure people don't understand her point of view. But guess what everyone is entitled to their own PERSONAL opinion. SO this is just MY opinion. You don't like it.....TOO F*cking BAD!!!
We need to stop attacking each other via post and if you have something negative to say do it via PM or hey here is an idea....keep it to yourself.
Not everyone on this board has an easy time TTC, has an easy family life, has infant and toddlers that eat, sleep and **** by the book, have teenagers that listen 100% of the time but hey this board is a learning experiences for ALL OF US!!! So cut people some slack if they can't get preggo, lose a bean, have a child that won't sleep or a teenager that keep sneaking out. Nobody is perfect and those who throw the first stone are especially not perfect.
Carroll
I was going to ignore the things that have gone on here for the last few days but of course my pregnancy hormones have gotten the best of me and I am steaming at this point. So go ahead and flame all you want.....
First and foremost this board is entitled "Pregnancy after WLS surgery" to me that equates to everything that comes along with it.....the good the bad and the ugly and believe me those three have shown there faces here!!! I don't have if you have been preggo, TTC, or just getting knowledge here....EVERYONE IS WELCOME!!!! Regardless of their fertility status.
There are women on this board who out of the goodness of there heart supply us will valuable advice, support, experiences, constructive criticism, etc. on a daily basis.
There are others on this board who are just basically **** stirrers!!!! You have women here that no matter how many times they post the same question 300 different ways no answer is what they want to hear. You have others that hardly post and just read everyday and gain tons of knowledge from that. You have others how post occasionally but read everyday. And then you have others who are so dedicated to this board that it amazes me.
I am not sure why but when one or two people voice how THEY feel they are attacked. I know if you don't want to read the post then skip it. I agree but to those who post daily to numerous posts I am sure that is easier said than done. I have learned about not only TTC here but how to tomato sauce stains off of bottles, which strollers to get if you are having multiples, how to comfort those who have had a loss, how to celebrate with those who have given birth, how to tolerate teenagers at their worst times, etc. Its not just about Pregnancy after WLS. Its about everything that has to do with being a family. AND GUESS WHAT LADIES....alot of us are not doing our part to keep this family going.
I am sure Ann gets it.....people are pissed. And I am sure people don't understand her point of view. But guess what everyone is entitled to their own PERSONAL opinion. SO this is just MY opinion. You don't like it.....TOO F*cking BAD!!!
We need to stop attacking each other via post and if you have something negative to say do it via PM or hey here is an idea....keep it to yourself.
Not everyone on this board has an easy time TTC, has an easy family life, has infant and toddlers that eat, sleep and **** by the book, have teenagers that listen 100% of the time but hey this board is a learning experiences for ALL OF US!!! So cut people some slack if they can't get preggo, lose a bean, have a child that won't sleep or a teenager that keep sneaking out. Nobody is perfect and those who throw the first stone are especially not perfect.
Carroll
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