Birth Control - Need Some Advice
So I was warned last week, for the first time during my 8 month journey to have surgery, that my birth control may fail during the first year. I was quite stunned to learn this, in all of my independent research never did I come across any warnings that if you are on the pill, it could fail. I read about how you become more fertile, how much easier getting pregnant is and even how much better a pregnancy was but nothing about this.
So my question is, did you all use a back up method in addition to your birth control? Did anyone have failure?
Getting my DH to use a 'glove' is a lost cause and it's taken me several years to find a pill that I like. I definitely don't want an IUD or any other implant. But I don't want to depend on the pull out method because let me tell you, that is how niece #1 and niece #2 were brought into this world.
HELP!!!
So my question is, did you all use a back up method in addition to your birth control? Did anyone have failure?
Getting my DH to use a 'glove' is a lost cause and it's taken me several years to find a pill that I like. I definitely don't want an IUD or any other implant. But I don't want to depend on the pull out method because let me tell you, that is how niece #1 and niece #2 were brought into this world.
HELP!!!
Well I see that you are getting the band and not gastric bypass, so technically there isn't any malabsorbtion. Not sure that the pill would be necessarily less effective for you -maybe one of our other bansters can confirm.
My surgeon suggested condoms for the first 6 months - I am sure that there are other products on the market, spermacides etc that would work for you. Give hubby a choice condoms or no lovin! lol
My surgeon suggested condoms for the first 6 months - I am sure that there are other products on the market, spermacides etc that would work for you. Give hubby a choice condoms or no lovin! lol
pp is right.
that said, I was on the patch. worked great. then I was out of town, prescription ready for pickup here so it couldn't be filled there, and was a mere 2 days late putting it on....and look at me now.
that said, I was on the patch. worked great. then I was out of town, prescription ready for pickup here so it couldn't be filled there, and was a mere 2 days late putting it on....and look at me now.
Mandy, Mom to Jordan (5), Kaida (3) and Luken (born 12/5/09) Army wife! HW:351 / SW: 328 / CW:149/ Goal weight...what is that?
I don't see why your pill would fail when you're getting a band because there's no problem with absorbing medications. I certainly wasn't warned of any such thing. If your doctor is worried about your ability to swallow the birth control pill, there's even a chewable available.
I don;t know if they recommend doing any back-up method that employs the same method of working as the first (like doing the pill AND a patch), but if you're really worried you could consider maybe the pill and nuva ring?
In the end, I would go to your GYN for advice, not your band surgeon.
I don;t know if they recommend doing any back-up method that employs the same method of working as the first (like doing the pill AND a patch), but if you're really worried you could consider maybe the pill and nuva ring?
In the end, I would go to your GYN for advice, not your band surgeon.
Banded 03/22/06 276/261/184 (highest/surgery/lowest)
Sleeved 07/11/2013 228/165 (surgery/current) (111lbs lost)
Mom to two of the cutest boys on earth.
I was never told this but it does make sense for us with the RNY. I know I was told that we are super fertile after surgery so we should use two forms of bc. My surgeon said the best was the pill and a condom. Hubby gave me problems about it until the surgeon told him he needed to. We just stopped using two last month when I went off the pill and now we are on none.
I shall now be know as Hagatha: Queen of the queens.
Baby 7-09
Xavier Elliott born 10-5-10
WoW! You guys are awesome! I was the only bandster in the office that day so rather than holding two pre-op classes, they just had the one and I was in with about a dozen other bypass patients so I am thinking that warning must have been meant for them! Whew! It never dawned on me that the nurse was likely referring to mal-absorbing.
Thank you all!
Thank you all!