HAIR!!!
I have PCOS, and although I didn't know what "it" was until about 12-13 years ago, I knew something was up, the extra facial/body hair had started in my mid to late teens, but no one really knew about that. I was misdiagnosed as something completely different until I went to a reproductive endocrinologist because I wanted to get pregnant, then she told me it was PCOS.
I had Lap-Band surgery 12/19 and have lost 40 pounds. Some have lost more, some less, but I am happy with my loss so far. The literature says weight gain makes PCOS worse, and having PCOS makes losing weight harder. Great news, I'm sure. I shave right now, and use Vaniqa. Will do laser removal in the future when I have enough $$. I have also been on spironolactone in the past and need to speak with my doctor about trying that again. Some ladies have had a lot of luck with that.
Good luck with everything. If you need to "talk," I'm usually on the Lap-Band forum since I only have a limited time to be on-line.